No worries.

My appology about the timing of your post.

G.

Thank you all for the feedback. And my previous post was weeks ago not 12 hours so I was actually being very patient. I will work on a rewrite and try to get a better picture up too. As far as the single male having permission part, that is the way we roll. She does play but not very often. She hasn't felt like playing since she put on a few pounds and we are hitting the gym so those circumstances will likely change in the near future but that is really the only way I see to curb the onslaught of single males sending emails. Again, thanks for your responses.

First of all, you post 12 hours ago and you're already complaining about no replies.

There are a lot of warning areas in your profile, and it's full of contradictions in what you're looking for, what you want, what you will and won't do, and who you are.

You write well, that's a plus, but you state something, then reel it back in and state something seemingly opposite. If you could be more clear, you'd get better results.

Lots of negatives. And I run from that word "allow." So do a lot of swingers.

Good luck, and maybe think of doing a rewrite.

G.

Out I agree with you,
I hate seeing profiles that say "I can play alone, she is not playing" etc, etc. These are red flags

Mrs Voya

Well, from my view two things. When I read a profile and it is "supposed" to be a couple, and the guy says " shes not playing" to me it sounds like hes cheating. Second loose the attitude look. That does not come across very friendly and I am sure you are.

I know my pic is not the greatest either.

I guess I posted in the wrong section before as I have had no responses. Please let us know what we might try to change to improve our profile.

-Tim-