Post pictures of your man for cryin outloud!!!!!!: Swingers Discussion 189088

SwingLifeStyle Swingers Personal Ads. | SwingLifeStyle Swingers Clubs

Busy Swingers Forum

Everything you always wanted to know about swingers.

TOPIC: Post pictures of your man for cryin' outloud!!!!!!

Created by: Aquariescpl Original Starting post for this thread:
Why are there so many profiles with pics of ONLY the female half of a couple? Come on people!!!! We are swingers!!! We Swap....(eventually). I'm sure that there is a higher percentage of men cruising the profiles looking for hot couples to get together with, me included. But there isn't any meeting unless my wife says, "yeah they are cute, lets meet them." Here's a situation many of you have been in I'm sure..... It's late, your male is restless and looking at profiles. He sees a profile with pictures of a beautiful woman and sends a "Hi" email asking for more pics of them both. The pictures come and Mrs. Your half says ,"Oh hell no!!" Now you have this couple all excited thinking that you are interested in them and there is no way it is going any farther. Save your selves the upset. Post pics of you both in your public folder.

Created by: Aquariescpl
Original Starting post for this thread:

Why are there so many profiles with pics of ONLY the female half of a couple? Come on people!!!! We are swingers!!! We Swap....(eventually). I'm sure that there is a higher percentage of men cruising the profiles looking for hot couples to get together with, me included. But there isn't any meeting unless my wife says, "yeah they are cute, lets meet them." 

Here's a situation many of you have been in I'm sure.....
It's late, your male is restless and looking at profiles. He sees a profile with pictures of a beautiful woman and sends a "Hi" email asking for more pics of them both. The pictures come and Mrs. Your half says ,"Oh hell no!!" Now you have this couple all excited thinking that you are interested in them and there is no way it is going any farther.

Save your selves the upset. Post pics of you both in your public folder.

GoTo Page: 1 2 3 4 5

1 to 10 of 48

End

User Details are only visible to members.	Welcome to the forums Luv2play! :) If you're that frustrated and you are not finding anyone to make the first contact with... why not reconsider your rule?? If you like their profile (they sound like a match) and you like the female pic, (and they have a private folder) and everything else matches your preferences (ht/wt/age/smoking) ... shoot them that first email, 'including your request to see pics'. No pics with their reply, no 2nd email. It would be easier as you explained, but it's just not the way it is for some reason with alot of people and you might be missing out on some really nice couples. We're not into wasting much time either, but we've done it like this as well and has worked out nicely with some. ...just a thought. Much luck to both of you, Lady K :)
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	If you are becoming really frustrated on SLS you are spending too much time on here.
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It really frustrates me when there are no body shots of the male and numerous sexy photos of the woman in the public profile! I agree, more men probably are checking out profiles then the ladies, and posting a photo of the female half as the profile picture is fine, but when you open the other public profile photos please have photos of both of you if you are playing as a couple! As most you guys know by now, you are never going to hook up with another couple unless the lady approves of the male, and says its a go! Pictures do not have to be face shots in your public profile, just body shots are fine (so no excuses)! Save the face shots for your private folders. As the female of this couple, we will not contact anyone who doesn't have photos of the male in their public folder. I don't mean this to sound harsh, but we all have busy lives, so why waste time sending numerous messages back and fourth to finally get a photo of the male only to realize there is no physical attraction.
Bellingham WA			Username hidden (2 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	As insane as it may sound, people get the attention of other because sex sales, A sexy woman, nice boobs or nice ass, nevertheless , these kind of pics are going to draw the attention of most men and most woman, if you look at most of the profile pics right here you will see the woman, but of course when you contact other couple you should have photos of both people. It has Slipped my mind once or twice but I am working it out so a little politeness and respectfully asking is the way to go.
Baldwin NY			Username hidden (25 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Because of a recent event, I am taking my guy everywhere I go. I do not post his pictures this is why. Years ago someone found a profile of ours on aol with pictures of both. An anonymous letter was sent to a civic organisation he WAS a member of. He quietly resigned. Face pics can cause problems. We are all human beings with feelings and personalities. There is more to a person than a 6 pack. I met a really nice handsome man to play with, then he opened his mouth and said something. No it did not happen. Some think they are too hot to play with you, well when you get my age hope you are not treated like that. We have met some that were not hwp or pretty, I know I am not great but I am fun, but we had more fun with them than anyone. Skin is only skin, hope none of you ever go blind. Think about it.
Longview TX			Username hidden (6 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	we have male pics but we find most of the time the "couple"(male reading) want pics of the female... thats why we try to meet at a club or house party..that way if the meal isnt tasty there is always more at the buffet!!!! We arent hung up on our looks..(we know we arent that great looking) and we dont expect ken and barbie either but we dont reveal face pics till either asked (with expectation of a meet) or we make first contact( thats just being polite) We feel that an attraction yes has to be there but what gets OUR goat is all the free members... if you arent serious about a membership we ask are you serious about the lifestyle?? Free memebrs cant see pics other than public anyway and we hate "emailing pics"... not our cup of tea.. as for pics of him... hes camera shy (he takes the pics) but we are working on it!!
Lancaster OH			Username hidden (128 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Arkon.. I'v seen yalls pics and yes they would be interested... What pisses me off is I know I'm an ungly fuck. but i out my pics out there. but the males will write us as though they both are interested then when my wife talks with the wife of the other couple she'll ask if she has seen our profile . We always get the same answer,"oh. he takes care of all that". Then when she looks at our profile they disappear or when we meet she has this what the fuck did yoou get me into look on her face. Point ... If I 'm going to take the time to put pics on here at lest take the time to show them to your wife.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2197 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Welcome to the forums Wittycpl. Reads as though you have your needs all squared away. We recently took all our pictures off SLS, therefore, we would not qualify for you. We're okay with that though. We don't expect everyone to be interested in us. Your generalizations could end up causing you a significant loss of quality opportunities. I'm reasonably certain if you saw our pictures you would both be interested in meeting us.
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We joined this site as a couple, and are looking for couples. Although I can appreciate a pretty lady, that's just not my cup of tea. If I don't see at least a G rated body pic of the man, we don't waste our time in contacting them. Like others, I just have to think that there is something ogreish about him. If someone contacts us and there aren't any pics of the male, they get one chance to provide one. I realize for the most part here, it's the male that writes the profiles, and posts the pics. Unfortunately he uses his lady as the bait, and a lot of time it's just tit or ass pics. It's really sad when you think about it. ~N
Daphne AL			Username hidden (33 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I agree face pics are of the most importance, We are not so much hung up on body size, I have been with large women and women who where as thin as a rail, But if i can't bring myself to kiss you it doesn't matter what you body looks like.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2197 post)

GoTo Page: 1 2 3 4 5

1 to 10 of 48

End

TOPIC: Post pictures of your man for cryin' outloud!!!!!!

		HELP
FORUMS: Successful Swinging: Better Profiles: Post pictures of your man for cryin' outloud!!!!!!