Must better; you never want to sound angry, hostile or negative in any way...keep things light and fun. Learn as you go but keep any "issues " to yourself lol. This journey is a learning process, every new meeting will teach you something else just don't let a few people ruin your attitude. Swingers have no higher standards on behavior than anyone else....keep an open mind.

Mrs Sav

First I remove the ALL CAPS paragraph; it sounds angry and hostile and lets face it rude arrogant people aren't going to recognize you're speaking to them anyway. I'd also add some more pictures . If you want to stick with vanilla photos thats fine but perhaps some of your wife in a pretty dress maybe ? If you'll note or photos there are many ways to take a photo without having to blurr the faces or cut them off. Try taking photos specifically with this in mind...turn your head away, wear a fun hat etc. I think it is terrific you've posted photos of you together as a couple enjoying yourself but they really are very vague and distant. Cropping photos to remove some backround is useful in those cases. Take a day and go take some "fun" pictures that give a better representation of you both as individuals. Just my 2 cents and heres a penny back for all it's worth. Mrs Sav