Welcome to the forums, Blonde! Wow! A literate profile that is clear about what you want. That alone carries you to the top of the unicorn class. Well, I suppose we need to offer some suggestions, so here you are: 1) find someone with Photoshop or similar who can fix your eyes in the one pic. Even simple programs have red eye repair these days. 2) You say you'll answer everyone, but then you say "except from across the country." Might be more useful if you limit your search area. For example are you interested in people coming to the Richmond area? Are you interested in people within a 100 mile range (covers both the DC area and all of Tidewater)? If so, saying that would be more helpful.

I used to be part of a couple on here...and am now happily single. Please let me know what you think. Any suggestions?