In addition to the other posted comments, remove any reference to your yahoo address. SLS strongly frowns upon including external contact info in profiles.

Since you heeded the advice and started your own thread (which is proper) I felt compelled to give your profile the once over. I agree with moving the no fakes and flakes comment. I'd put it after the first paragraph. No one wants flakes and flakes but the bold up front approach sets me on my heels. If you tone it down a little and say something like "No fakes or flakes please. We have had enough of both" Now that is something that people who are reading your profile can relate to. I don't like fakes or flakes either so now it's something that we have in common...instead of shouting it at me. "That goes the same for me also and I am not homophobic" is an awkward sentence. Flip it around. I'm not homophobic but like her, I'm not sure where my boundaries are. Nothing wrong with that by the way. I like the open communication. People replying to your profile should get a clear picture of where you stand and it's ok to say you are not quite sure. I would work on the descriptions a little. She loves, she loves, she loves; he is, he is, he is. Something like "west coast swing and two step are a passion but she cant waltz worth a poop" something to make it interesting. I understand the phone thing. We need to exchange phone numbers.....or we like to exchange phone numbers so in case you are running late you can contact us. To me it just softens it a little. This sounds like something from personal experience but remember we are not all assholes out here most of us are regular people just like you who would never not call. I believe in giving people the benefit of the doubt. Your writing sounds directed at the asshole who stood you up. So if I write to you are you going to assume I'm an asshole and I have to prove myself worthy or are we going to start on level ground? It's ok to tell me what your pet peaves are but if I feel lectured I'b be reluctant to contact you. Just my opinion. I like your first pic, it's catchy but Id lose the white karaoke pic since it's so fuzzy. Enjoy all that life has to offer, Oldfriend

not a bad profile, but you start right off the bat with a glaring negative statement. And all in caps. You state the same thing, basically, further down, so I think you'd sound more positive and alluring if you removed the beginning sentence about fakes and flakes and let it stand where it is later on.

Use spell check. Competitive is spelled correctly here (I rarely need spell check, but that's my thing, not most people's).

Good luck in the wonderful world of swinging,
G.