Time we have. I have been spending alot of time looking over the forums and getting some very good pointers. I took off many of the pics we had on, because i felt that if people want to see our nudes, they can meet us in person. I have a whole photo album just for the parties we attend/give. (Yes i have permission from anyone who is shown to have them in our private pics). The advice that I have gotten from here has greatly helped. We have been very hurt by a couple we met here, and it almost drove us away, but with the advice on these forums, we have decided to stay. And it seems that now that we are not involved with that other couple, we are getting more interested people. Maybe it was the company that we were keeping. (we were co-founders of a group here in monterey). Thank you for the kind words and the encouragement, Kathy

Muffjoy,
You have some fun looking pics and a nice profile. Just give it time....

We would love to go to clubs and meet/greets, but because of his work, we can not travel to the bay area. (we are about 2 hrs from the nearest scene.) We are trying to get some local people together for meet/greets in our area. but thank you both for taking a look and lettin me know that the profile is good.

Muffjoy I think your profile is fine to. Try going to a swing club or a meet & greet to meet some people, there is know expectations to do anything unless you want to.

JoAnn

Muffjoy: I glanced at your profile and I like it. I noticed you guys haven't been on SLS real long, maybe just gotta give it more time.
Mrs.

Could someone please help us with our profile? Do we sound too desparate? We like to play, but hubby is starting to get discouraged that we are not meeting people.
thanks in advance

I'm with dzzy need to up date your photo...lol

JoAnn

i thought it was a litte odd that ur default profile is over 4 yrs old...

that's it...

Ok Darlin', you need to tighten it up some! Take out MOST of the LOLs. If someone thinks you're witty (and you are), then he/she will laugh, don't prompt it so much.

A bit wordy, but who am I to tell you that? I'd just shorten it a bit, esp. repetitive statements about distance and interests outside the bedroom.

Like that you sound intelligent and can construct a proper sentence. Think about adding a few more pictures to your public shots, maybe that gorgeous hair she has, or something of that nature.

Gina

We seem to get alot of people looking, but everyone seems shy to respond even just to say hello. I ( Mr ) sometimes let people know about their profile and compliment them on their pics, say hello, also that it's not and invite to chat...unless they want to :-). We change our tag line about once a week. Thanks in advance and tell us what you guys think.