I agree, this is a difficult site for single guys and want to express appreciation for all the comments offered in this particular thread ... thanks to all of you, good food for thought.

Good advice here. Just another bite or two of this reality sandwich...

You've set your course on a very diffcult path. The only people in the lifestyle having a tougher time getting their hands on single females in the LS, would probably be single males. That is of course, unless you're hung like a horse. Why? Because they do not have to come here to find guys. They come here mostly for couples where wife is bi and hot, and hubby has a big cock.

As always, some will disagree. There are exceptions. Finding them, and getting them to do more than talk shit, is the challenge.

First off . . . your not a bad looking guy. You need to get a better picture or set of pictures on your profile. Something that says relaxed and fun . . .not work work work. Second ... If you are funny . . exhibit it . . maybe in the tag line. Again . . . not work related. Third . . . this is not a dating site. If you want to date . . I would suggest going through regular channels and then introducing them into the lifestyle. If a female is on here and she truely is single . . she probably is fairly comfortable. Relax some and enjoy the ride. Couples are fun and are a great way to meet single females. Just our 2 cents worth.

Bill, welcome to the forums. Before addressing your profile, my first thought is that this is not a dating site and if you are looking for single women you might be in the wrong place. As to your profile itself, these are my suggestions: First, you've been a member for 8 years yet have no certs. Lots of peeps will see that as a red flag. Second, you don't really say what you've got to offer a prospective play partner. Third, you say your sense of humor might be your best quality, but you don't exhibit that humor in your profile. Fourth, the profile in general is a little bit nebulous and tentative about exactly what it is you want to do, aside from meeting women and going out on dates. Just my thoughts. Good luck to you, and again, welcome to the forums.

As a single male, in order to be successful, you'll need to make real friends in your local community, as at least on this sight (still a newb myself afterall,) single males tend to try and use this as a singles hookup spot. Needless to say, that doesn't go over well with the majority of active users (couples), and they tend to be wary of single males for future play dates. I hope you find the right lady to ease you along in your transition from interested/somewhat experienced SM to full swinging couple, or wherever your comfort zone lies. That being said, it may be prudent to expand your horizons, as SF (single females) have a cute little moniker of "unicorn," around here, because they are exceedingly rare, but nonetheless magical. Happy Swinging!

I just stumbled upon this forum, and seems like a good thing to try if people are willing to help. Realizing it is an uphill challenge as a single guy here, I'd appreciate any help I can get. I am primarily interested in meeting females, but the right couple is a possibility as well.

Thank you in advance for your time and advice!!!!

Bill.