This has been something we've questioned ever since we first discovered these lifestyles websites. It's always the same thing.

I've wondered myself if the women are more confident than the men. They definitely appear to be confident which is sexy in itself, but then they post that they don't want single men contacting them. Well - it's a single guy checking out a woman only! HELLOOO

Ultimately, I think it speaks volumes about the couple in general. In our experience the guy in those scenarios tended to be a bit more controlling in the relationship and less confident so of course less attractive.

No, no, no, Swedes, you've got it all wrong. On the radio he says, "...Where the women are strong, the men are good looking..." LOL

Because most women are beautiful and most men are ugly ;-)! Seriously, though, I think it partly reflects our ages. Most SLS members are 40+ and don't want to post face pics. While men 40+ probably often have more distinguished/confident faces than younger men, those with amazing bodies to show off are (sadly) few and far between.

We always wondered the same thing. :)

The Wife of this Couple would like to know why most of the couple profiles show great Pictures of the female's but when it comes to the Men all they show is some guy standing there! She see's all these sexy females in provocative positions wearing such sexy outfit's revealing lots of private parts
but she would like to see more of the male's and what they have to offer?
How are we supposed to say yes to a couple when all we see is the male fully clothed?