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TOPIC: Pictures In Couple's profile
Created by: zak69
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I, The female find that the lack of Male pictures in couples profile is very discouraging. Making it very difficult to decide on who to email. It should be standard practice that there should be a picture of the male, the female and then one of the couple making it a more efficient profile.

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We've stopped even contacting couples without even a G rated body shot of the male. So many times we've chatted back and forth with a promising couple only to get a picture of the male and he looks... Not even gonna say.

Chicago IL
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We agree. Couples looking for couples should have some pics of the male half in their public gallery.

Princeton NJ
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Couldn't agree with you more Zak. I like looking at boobs as much as the next bi girl lol, however we're interested in couples too. . I don't know how many times we have emailed couples, (just going off the female photo and male height and weight) only to be really disappointed after they opened up pictures. More male pictures in profiles please...

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GREAT POST!!! Completely agree!!!

If it is a couple looking for couples, we find it an automatic give-away to stay-away when there is not a GOOD picture of the male. If they do not post a decent picture of his physique then they just don't get what the lifestyle is all about - honesty, openness, and fun.

Everyone has different taste and none of us are perfect, so they guys need to stop being so shy. If he is not happy about the way he looks, then what makes him think a woman would be. It is about self confidence more than just muscles and weight. And if he is that uncomfortable, he should put the oreos down, hit the gym, groom himself and then post a decent pic. Then, watch the emails come flying in…

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Sorry BLS, I can't tell you if you have a good profile or not...it hides from couples. But if you think it's good enough..that's what matters.

Memphis TN
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I think we have a pretty good profile and we get the crazy people and tire kickers. Not sure what helps here...

Loganville GA
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Hola Zak,

This is one of the most common critiques I offer when couples ask for profile advice in this forum. It *should* be common sense that if you are swinging as a couple, then your profile and pics should accurately describe and portray both of you, but common sense is an uncommon virtue.

All too often we come across profiles with 150 pics of the lady and none of the man....or maybe 1 really bad picture, which is usually a selfie in front of the bathroom mirror. We pass those profiles up 100% of the time, no matter how attractive the female might be. If we can't see both of you, we're moving on.

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I, The female find that the lack of Male pictures in couples profile is very discouraging. Making it very difficult to decide on who to email. It should be standard practice that there should be a picture of the male, the female and then one of the couple making it a more efficient profile.

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TOPIC: Pictures In Couple's profile