Ted, I agree with all that has been posted here. If I were a single female I wouldn't be very interested in what your profile offers nor am I interested as part of a couple.

I don't get any kind of a 'feel' for who you are or what you are interested in, or in what you have to offer as a playmate. You really should 'work on it' and flesh it out to show more of who you are and what your attitude is (e.g., playful, serious, very experienced, etc.).

Good luck.

Actually, it can be. I look primarily for couples but have met a few single ladies on here.

My advice remains the same for the OP, if all you want is to find a woman, the vanilla sites are a better bet. You are much more likely to find couples to invite you to join them than single females.

good luck!

Thanks everyone. I will work on it.

Yes, I want to play with couples, but would mostly like to meet a lady that I can share the lifestyle with.

Hi Ted, and welcome to the Forums.

Good advice in this thread! When I see profiles with hardly anything written, I just skip over them as so many times they're people who aren't serious about playing (quite a few just want to be on the site so they can look at other's pics). So, you must remedy this : ) Read other SM profiles for some ideas...Nic has a very well-written profile. The best written profiles show intelligence, respect and humor.

Best wishes,
Kat

Welcome Miamited

I would suggest you spend a few lines explaining what you can offer to a couple. Remember, there are a LOT of single guys on here who think this is just an easy place to get laid. If that is your goal, stick with vanilla sites. Here it is about fulfilling a couple's fantasy first and yours second. If all you write about is what YOU are looking for, you will be skipped over.

Good luck and have fun!

A

In addition to what ST wrote...if you are straight, why do you show an interest in single males as a single male? If you are actually interested in male-male play, change your orientation to bi-curious; if not interested, change your interest bars accordingly. Always best to avoid mixed messages in your profile :)

Welcome to the forums, Ted.

Honestly, I think your profile comes perilously close to what you might post on a normal dating site. That won't attract much attention here.

And you really need to fill out the last two sections of the profile.

Open to suggestions and constructive criticism.