My turn for some advice: Swingers Discussion 199033

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My turn for some advice: Swingers Discussion 199033

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TOPIC: My turn for some advice

Created by: step4863 Original Starting post for this thread:
We literally have just gone through almost two months on not attracting one email or letter of interest in response to our profile. We have changed up the profile a little bit and was wondering if some of you would be willing to examine it and give us some feed back. Thanks in advance to those of you who accept this challenge.

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User Details are only visible to members.	LOL! Your right, it is probably the safest place around here! lol! And it's also true, I have found much of your advice or insight very helpful, as well as many others, especially at the beginning. As exciting as it is, it is also complicated with all the possibilities and unknowns. It is nice to see the wisdom of other's.
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"Mrs. Sav happens to be the best at this ...we were just waiting for her. lol." Why thank you Kind....that was very kind of you lol. I don't know that I agree with you but profiles are the one place I feel comfortable making suggestions and no one chews my head off ....at least not yet lol Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4024 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	wonderful advice Mrs. Sav :) @Step; not everyone feels they can give advice on a profile, which mite be there's alot of views and few replies. Mrs. Sav happens to be the best at this ...we were just waiting for her. lol. I do agree with all she said, ...but also think that your profile shows very nice personalities and you are a lovely looking couple! So maybe its just a matter of a little tweeking... Are you contacting others on sls and are you getting out to meets and greets or other LS events?
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	That happens a lot maybe because they are readers only but more likely many times those who ask for opinions don't like the answers they receive and sometimes turn nasty. As I said I think your profile is fine , the complication lies in what you are seeking. On a positive note, no matter what you are seeking it can be very difficult to find the "right" match. Some have an easier time and others search for months and then still find it disappointing. Hang in there. I will comment that you most likely will have to at least meet a lot of people before finding the right one. It really isn't much different than dating in the vanilla world when one person is seeking a relationship and everyone they meet just wants to have fun. Keep in mind though that unless you meet a bunch of people you will never know who might be the right one. Personally I remove all comments inferring you want a relationship with a special women or couple. I am not saying you need to be sexual with anyone but until you meet and others meet you it is never possible to know if a relationship would benefit both all of you. If you REALLY want to lay it out their I'd add it to the fantasy section and say something to the effect of " Our fantasy would be to find that one special person or couple who we can have a lasting relationship with." Just some food for thought, keep in mind you have one opportunity to make an impression and the last thing you want to do is scare people away by leaving them the impression you're clingy, demanding and are taking a simple meeting too seriously or have high expectations on where this meeting will go. Think like a guy who fears hanging out with any women whose sole goal appears to be to get married......he will panic and flee long before anything has a chance to develop. I wish you happiness, success and patience. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4024 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thanks for the input Ms SAV. We do appreciate it and will consider some other options for better result. But just to show you what I am talking about...there has been 15 people looking at our request for assistance and you were the only one to respond.
Moss Bluff LA			Username hidden (12 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Based on your profile it appears you are looking for an exclusive relationship with either a single female or couple. For many people that would be reason enough to not contact you. I am not saying there is something wrong with your preference but understand you are looking for a needle in a haystack. There are literally millions of people seeking the ever elusive single female which means the world is at Her feet in regard to who she might meet. As far as couples go the majority are here for variety, many want deep friendships as well but very few are looking for an exclusive relationship. People who, like us who do not want a "relationship" would never contact you as we are not what you seek nor what we seek. We aren't here to "date" nor spend days, weeks or months investing time into developing a relationship that may or may not generate a 4 way connection. We have developed many friendships on this site but we do not require meaningful friendship first. From the tone of your profile that appears exactly what you are looking for. Again, no criticism . Your are here after all to fulfill YOUR desires but I believe therein lies your problem . Your profile is going to rule out far many more people than it dazzles. Patience is a necessity here. Good luck to you both. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4024 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We literally have just gone through almost two months on not attracting one email or letter of interest in response to our profile. We have changed up the profile a little bit and was wondering if some of you would be willing to examine it and give us some feed back. Thanks in advance to those of you who accept this challenge.
Moss Bluff LA			Username hidden (12 post)

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TOPIC: My turn for some advice