On the subject of pictures. Best to stay away of using webcams and cellphone cameras, they produce notoriously poor quality and/or low resolution images. Ask a friend to take some nice G-rated pics with their digital camera, or get a $40 digital camera (the $25 digital cameras often don't have a flash) and do it yourself, although having a friend help always produces a better, more natural picture. Good luck :)

I see a few issues right away. First of all, your picture is just not good, especially since it is the only one on your profile. I do not know what message you are trying to get across but it looks silly and a single man in this arena has GOT to have quality pics. Delete that and take you some good ones of your face and body. Your very first sentence says you have no earthly idea what you are looking for...not good. If you didn't lose me with the pic you'd lose me at the first sentence. Yes, swingers DO know what we want usually...most especially the females. Your pronunciation could be better. You speak of your fantasies being fulfilled. Honestly the single male is here to fulfill the fantasies of the woman. Not that she does not give a shit about you or your needs...but the primary role you will play here is for HER. Your profile needs some work. I would suggest you tell others about yourself, what you enjoy doing...not just what your fantasies and needs are. Check your spelling and how you use your words. And definately trash that picture.