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Hi all!! Hubby and I are pretty new to the lifestyle; we've had threesomes and enjoy that a great deal. That's pretty much what led to joining the site and creating a profile here. I see that people have viewed our profile and we have emailed at least 15 different ladies expressing our interest in their profile and getting to know each other better, etc. My frustration is that although we've been viewed a lot and have reached out, we've not received any responses to a single email...nor has anyone emailed us to express interest in our profile. I consider myself and my husband to be fairly attractive and I tried to make our profile interesting so what are we doing wrong? Any opinion's would be appreciated!! I have thick skin so please be as honest as you need to be. Thanks!!! (this has been copied from the "getting started" thread)

Created by: TlcSbc
Original Starting post for this thread:

Hi all!! Hubby and I are pretty new to the lifestyle; we've had threesomes and enjoy that a great deal. That's pretty much what led to joining the site and creating a profile here. I see that people have viewed our profile and we have emailed at least 15 different ladies expressing our interest in their profile and getting to know each other better, etc. My frustration is that although we've been viewed a lot and have reached out, we've not received any responses to a single email...nor has anyone emailed us to express interest in our profile. I consider myself and my husband to be fairly attractive and I tried to make our profile interesting so what are we doing wrong? Any opinion's would be appreciated!! I have thick skin so please be as honest as you need to be. Thanks!!! (this has been copied from the "getting started" thread)

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User Details are only visible to members.	First, a disclaimer: we don't know what we're talking about. :-) We are one of the few NOT looking for a unicorn! We received some help with our profile and we are trying to pay it forward. That said, having read many, many profiles we have often noticed that couples have stated a) a situation where the girl plays alone sometimes or b) a situation not unlike yours where the guy just watches. The difference is that their profiles say 'couples' as well in terms of preference whereas yours says 'females' only. It is possible this will make it even harder for you and this might be deliberate. Our suggestion is that you consider changing your preference to couples and females and then just firm things up very clearly in your actual profile text not unlike you've described in your post. Good luck! S+G
Chicago IL			Username hidden (3 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	You would have a better chance of finding a couple that is only interested in girl play while the husbands watch. That's what we enjoy, and we've been pretty successful finding others with similar preferences. I guess it depends on whether your husband like to watch you with other girls or if he wants to always participate. Personally, I love watching my wife with a hot girl while I have a beer. Then I get to finish her off myself.
Chesterfield VA			Username hidden (40 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thanks for your response, Losamantes. I appreciate your feedback a great deal. We are, fortunately, patient people although the search has been a little frustrating. I totally respect the lifestyle and all the different preferences and options available...so much so that sometimes I wish that we were into full couples. Alas, I have no real desire to be with another man and my husband respects that. He has asked me many times "are you sure?" because I think he feels sometimes like its unfair to me that we get to fool around with another woman but have not done the same with another man. I don't feel that way at all; if it wasn't for my love of women, we wouldn't be involved in the lifestyle at all. It took him a while to come around to having another woman in our bed and the few times we've been fortunate enough to experience that were amazing. We came here to hopefully find someone else to have fun with. He currently has zero interest in attending parties which stinks because I think it could only increase our chances. So it looks like we'll just keep on searching here and hope we find our "unicorn". Thanks again! XOXO
Pomfret Center CT			Username hidden (6 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	You've got a nice profile with nice pictures so you should expect to get a lot of views. Most of us are couples, followed next by single males. Your preference indicates that you are only into single females. Search the forum for "unicorn" and you'll find they're about as rare as hen's teeth. If you're looking for an attractive, HWP unicorn you may be searching for several years, if in fact you ever find her. SLS is a mirror of the real world, not some version of "50 Shades of Lame".
Virginia Beach VA			Username hidden (268 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hi all!! Hubby and I are pretty new to the lifestyle; we've had threesomes and enjoy that a great deal. That's pretty much what led to joining the site and creating a profile here. I see that people have viewed our profile and we have emailed at least 15 different ladies expressing our interest in their profile and getting to know each other better, etc. My frustration is that although we've been viewed a lot and have reached out, we've not received any responses to a single email...nor has anyone emailed us to express interest in our profile. I consider myself and my husband to be fairly attractive and I tried to make our profile interesting so what are we doing wrong? Any opinion's would be appreciated!! I have thick skin so please be as honest as you need to be. Thanks!!! (this has been copied from the "getting started" thread)
Pomfret Center CT			Username hidden (6 post)

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