Okay, updated things a bit today, 11/11/09, the original post was a few days ago.

Would appreciate some more input, thanks

Thanks, creative writing is not one of our finer points.

NICE?!?!? Not only do you want posts, but I have to be NICE too?!?!? Takes all the fun out of it, but OK. Honestly, don't see too much "wrong" with your profile, it's just a little ... bland. It says the same things that many other profiles say, in the same way all the other profiles say it - you are an attractive couple, but your profile doesn't make you stand out. Maybe elaborate on what you want from the lifestyle a little more, what kind of people you want to meet (what you want to do with them?), even hobbies or interests that would make people with similar interests want to hang out with you. You are vague on what you are looking for and what your ideal playmates would want/have. I just get that you want to be friends first, move slow, and then maybe play ... and that's it. I need more information to know if you are the kind of people I want to hang with.

Hi, we are both new and need a little help with our profile. we would like to find a couple that is a little understanding, not pushy, kathy is interested in meeting people, developing a friendship, and or if things are right, right mood etc.

Open to all suggestions, and please be nice.... :)