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TOPIC: Is our profile the problem
Created by: Jatins01
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We've been on the site for quite some time and have had very little luck. When we first came on we kept attracting couples we definitely were not interested in so over time we've added more and more but now we're generating little interest with the exception of stalkers who don't seem to take "we're not interested " for what it means. Please help. We want to have our first experience sometime this century. :p
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Goes to show that patience is rewarded. If one bases responses as a measure then that would be inaccurate for again one good one is better than 100 less than desirable ones. We have finally met what works for us as well but it took some weeding and not getting discouraged by those that lacked all of the motor skills that one would expect.

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Hooray for you! If you would want to accept certifications, you could now ask them to write one for you and reciprocate. It wouldn't have to be explicit about what you did, but could verify that you are real and real fun to be with. ;-)

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So I guess the updated profile did the trick. We just had our first experience this past Friday :)

Thank you everyone for your input it definitely helped a lot :)

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Yeah :) now if only people actually read our profile that would be awesome. Haha :p so many asking for photos and yet completely missed /ignored the part in our profile saying "if you request access to our photos you need to have yours open" I mean we get the why of it all but still should we bother responding when its obvious they're not really reading the profile?

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Well it seems no need to wait a month for an update. Woke up and checked our profile and 6 messages from couples :)

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Hello and Greetings, Based on what is seen now and compared to many profiles Kandy and I have reviewed your seems succinct and to the point, Could it stand a bit more "Tweekage"? Sure all profiles could. One simple point is the tag line should be updated weekly at minimum just to show that you are evolutionary and your profile is not stagnant. The pictures most certainly could use a better approach and so much is to be said for imagery. If you are intent on showing drinks then show a bottle of good wine LOL not Ripple or Old Thunderbird. No need to mention ethnicity for that can be conveyed in any later conversations for this is not a precluder unless someone is wearing a Burka. The more nervous you seem and convey in your profile the less apt someone would be to approach for that would bode a possible less than desirable experience. That does not mean that you should not come across without some reservations of course yet you do not wish to set the perceptions on a negative side up front. More needs to come through that you guys are fun loving and adventuresome for sure. Better to have one good response that has merit than one hundred that are lacking. We since we have been on have had very few responses but then again that does not discourage us whatsoever. The time will be right for some when it is right. Best, Kandy and Will

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Sure we'll let you guys know if things pick up. Crossing fingers :p

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Jatins, that is MUCH better! There are a few misplaced commas and a few missing capital letters, but overall it is a pleasant, clear read. One thing I just couldn't let pass without commenting - you wrote

... "a single (preferably Bi) female whom which we may explore certain fantasies with."

It should be ... "a single (preferably bi) female with whom we may explore certain fantasies."

Most people don't do this, but it would be fun for those of us who commented to know whether traffic picked up for you after you made the changes. Would you mind sending an update to this thread in a month or so?

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Ok so we've updated our profile. Hopefully this time it's a little better =)

As for being creative with the pics and hiding our faces..we'll work on that later.

Thanks everyone for your advice. We appeciate it. =)

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Thank you for the suggestions it is very much appreciated. Looks like we have some revamping to do :p

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