In the case of how i said what i said about interracial. In my mind the way i said it sounds nicer than the way you put it. thanks for the thoughts i will see what i can do to change something"

well you do not have to change anything lol...you earn the money to pay your dues. I was just giving you my opinion. But yeah lol, I'd at least drop the caps to lower case :0).

The funny thing about that is I put that in caps so it would be seen. I guess i could knock it down to lower case because they don't read it anyway. I am going to change that about the full swap and all. I can see where it would be confusing.

In the case of how i said what i said about interracial. In my mind the way i said it sounds nicer than the way you put it. thanks for the thoughts i will see what i can do to change something

I see a few things that will deter people from jump. Given, this is just my opinion because y'all asked...and opinions are like assholes....we all have them. But here is what I see. Like the other couple said, I have no idea in reading your profile what you are talking about when you say "we are not in to full swap OR soft swap at this time..." I would interpret that as a roundabout way of telling me you are on a break from swinging, not that you like 3somes. You need to be more succinct. Just say "we are not looking to play with couples, we are looking for MFMs or FMFs" or whatever. This way as a couple I don't spend time reading your entire profile. "We do not like INTERARAIL at all blacks, hispanics or any others sorry ITS OUR WORLD and we are not into that". Okay. Given the fact that your profile name has the word redneck in it.....personally I would not email just on that premise. However, when I read something like this in all caps, which does mean shouting btw, I think wow. You need to make sure number one that when you make a statement you have everything spelled correctly...or else you come across looking like an ignorant ass. It is INTERRACIAL. I understand that it is your world and you have every right to your opinion. You aren't wrong, I am not telling you that you are wrong. However, you are offensive in how you say that. There are more tactful ways of expressing this. Perhaps state it like "no offense meant to anyone...however, we are not sexually attracted to anyone other than whites." I myself also like primarily white men...but lots of my friends are people of other races. I would never invite you to a party or sponsor you because you come across in that line, along with the profile name to be honest, as banjo picking rednecks. Wouldn't do it, no offense intended to you. I would check your spelling and your errors. People do notice that sort of stuff. Now given, you seem like nice folks and I don't mean any disrespect. But that was my interpretation.

Well I read the definitions of those bars. and she does have intercorse with other men and the only one that says intercorse on it is wild. i guess the bars confussed us on what the definitions really ment. We just are not interested in bringing a couple in and swapping out partners. ours is a threesome thing. now if i am wrong on this let me know.

I thought i would come in here and see if ours was ok. Maybe it is and maybe its not.