We can't see what you're writing in reply, so we can't say if that's part of the problem, but you do give us a clue in your second message in the thread. You say you're opening your private pics when asked. Assuming what you write is ok, it may be the private pics for one of these reasons: 1) There is no pic of your male in the public pics, so the people you're writing to may not like his pic at all. If the female of the other couple doesn't like him, game over most of the time. 2) They might not like what they see in the private pics. 3) They may be pic collectors, so they now have what they want, and no further need to correspond with you. As several others have said, it's not unusual not to get responses to mail from people who seem to be a good fit -- on this site or any similar site. It's not something you should take personally.

Agreed.

-M

Don't feel bad, the same thing happens to us too. You have a catchy name, an exciting profile, and a couple of hot teaser pics! We'd totally respond to your mail if we got one.......Too bad you're over 1200 miles away!! haha

catnipfun-we have sent emails showing our interest and letting them know that we have read their email. We have opened us our pics for those who have asked. We have also responded to those who have wanted to meet. We never send emails without looking at the profile first. Thats how we know that we are interested in them. I don't know what else we can do.

timcopter-I know that we are new to this, but when you have people saying they want to meet up and send pics it is hard to not get our hopes up. Thanks for the support.

Hey WE'D reply to you just on the merits of your profile, and not just to be polite.

What kind of messages are you sending? Are they one-liners, or are you writing a small note that includes your names, that you opened your gallery for them, a comment to reflect you actually read their profile, etc.? That right there can make a bigger difference in getting replies than anything in your profile...

It's that way a lot. Could be a number of reasons. Sometimes we're busy and it takes a bit or we lose the e-mail, yes it really happens.

There are also a lot of fakes that just want to see your pics.

You're a bit new, relax, people will answer, it can be rough at first but you will meet real couples who are interested in you.

Your profile is good so we'd respond, hang in there it will improve.

It seems that most profiles we send email to do not respond. What is the deal?