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Mrs. Zenstain works as an adolescent therapist in this region, some of whose parents are in this lifestyle (won't even go into some of those stories). That alone is a very compelling reason to not leave our names on our profile. And why does having names on a profile such a big deal anyway? If you like the profile, won't you find out the names on the return email to you? That's exactly how we do it. I can completely understand why most people do not leave their names there. Very much the same reason that a lot of couples won't use face pix, us included.

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OK...so by that reasoning...you are Already hiding from free members... right? So ONLY paid members can see your pics...then why not list your names too??? We're just confused :-)

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The thing is that if only paid members can view our profiles we feel that we limit the chances of some one we know just trying the site out and seeing us. That is the issue we worry about. We want to be discreet. Now if some one we know pays and sees us they aren't going to say anything since they are a paying member (at least they won't go around telling people we know).

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Zen, its not a issue with their profile in particular...it's evolved into a discussion about the paranoia of not posting names...and the reasons why one might not...a pet peeve since we think it really doesnt make much difference...and its just more personable to address people by name thats all chris and sue

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Not sure what the issue around names (or lack of) is all about, but your profile looks excellent.

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If you think it through...we dont think leaving out real names really makes a difference anyway

We find the reason that you and many others on here use for not posting names is kinda funny since anyone who does see your pics on here...you are already "busted" whether or not your names are included. There always is a risk to everybody that someone on here could steal your pics and put them on a public site with your real names. But lets assume that does happen. Will having or not having your real names attached to the fake post make it any less damaging if someone you know finds out? Your deniability is pretty much the same. Someone stole pics and posted fake ad. They could have gotten your "G" pics and names from any "normal/nonlifestyle" webpage like yahoo and then decided to place fake ad.

Naturally nude pics are different which is why we dont post face in ours...EVER

take care

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I saw your post and the only names we have are our real names (I guess we aren't creative enough). She is very worried that some one we know from the "outside world" seeing us on here while they were just goofing (one of the reasons we don't allow free members to view our pics). Thanks for the input so far!

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Except for names (pet peeve) it seems pretty good! chris of sue

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Could you give our profile a quick look and let us know if we should change anything or just some general feedback? We appreciate the help. Wish we had done this sooner.

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