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TOPIC: Honesty is always good.
Created by: curiouspossibilities
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Hi everyone. We are getting absolutely no response from our profile, unless you count the 2 very strange emails we got, lol. We have even sent out multiple emails. not to the same person. Nothing. Could you fine people look it over and give us some honest, no holding back advice. Thanks

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Thanks Scandle.We are willing to try changing it up.

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curiouspossibilities, one key change you need to make in your profile is your stated preferences. In the check boxes you can indicate if you are Tame, Moderate, and/or Wild. The website definition of Wild is full swap, where a man you are playing with may get to have sexual intercourse with your wife. Since you say repeatedly that you are NOT full swap, change your preference at the top!

Personally, I think you say too often that you are not full swap. Being a soft swapper myself, my criticism is not of the preference, of course, but rather that saying it over and over again is redundant and boring. If someone actually reads your profile (and some don't), they will get it the first time they read the line.

We are occasionally contacted by people who are full swap and if there is possible interest, we always reply by pointing out that we aren't full swap. If it is an oversight on their part or they were just testing the waters, we don't waste their time or ours. If they are willing to play by our rules, then we proceed with a plan to meet them and go from there.

Some people like to see what things you are willing to do as soft swappers, because there are those whose limits are very tight. Do you allow or hope for kissing, stroking, oral, massage, toys, etc.?

On a side note, how do you feel about smokers and drinkers? If you feel strongly either way, include that in the profile text.

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Certs are from a meet greet and a club we attended. No email. We are lucky to get reply from the ones we send. Only about 10% get a response. Thanks for looking.

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I find it odd that you claim you are not getting email responses but you have three certs. Something must be working.

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Hi everyone. We are getting absolutely no response from our profile, unless you count the 2 very strange emails we got, lol. We have even sent out multiple emails. not to the same person. Nothing. Could you fine people look it over and give us some honest, no holding back advice. Thanks

Bowling Green KY
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TOPIC: Honesty is always good.