Hello there We have been in this for almost 3 years now and have a pretty good success rate because of our age limits , even though we list 18-60 we prefer them to be at least 30+ to 45 , don't get me wrong we love the older ones too depending on their physical abilities because lets face it if they cant preform and last then why bother , but to get back to the point , younger is fine if you can find em and good luck with that , but you will also find out like we and most of our friends on here have that younger also means in-experience , unstable , insecure and emotionally unable to comprehend that swinging is an experience shared between two people that wish to bring another into their sexual desires for only that reason , not to complicate their life's or cause them problems that may jeopardize their relationship , couples on here like to find others around their own age group simply to have something in common they can talk about out of the bedroom , but lets face it , swinging is about fantasies , and fantasies are hard to fill thats why they are called fantasies , but sexual experiences are whats gained by swinging , those who understand that gain from this site , those who don't continue on not understanding why they do not find what they are looking for on here . one last thing , the more limits you post the more people you leave out , swinging is about openness and two people being open enough and secure enough in their relationship to bring someone else into their sex life , but if your not open to try new things how will you know what you do or do not like ? well good luck in your search and hope this helps you or someone else on here in some small way , be safe have fun and enjoy

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I was going to say that about the ages too. Open up the other end of it and accept people up to 45 at any rate. You'll be pleasantly surprised.

G.

I think that people might look at your age preferances and think that you may be a little stuck on yourself. She wants men 21 to 30 and she is 39. They don't want anyone over 40 and he is 40. I guess that next year she won't have sex with him. I understand not wanting soomone a lot older but 4 or five years older don't make you seem like you are better than most.

Haha Scotty.. that was smooth ;)

see cayne great minds think alike... you should have sex with me.

Scotty you are reading my mind... I wasn't going to mention it but thats one of the first things I noticed also.

i my self didnt see anything wrong with the profile you stated what you are looking for and as many will tell you it may take time.

could be the smokers comment. Not that you're negative but alot of people in this lifetyle smoke.

Just a thought.

Two of the three shots of your wife are not taken well and hard to see (blurry). The clothed shot of him is too distant. I would add more pictures in general though.

Additionally, you could always add some non lifestyle related things to your profile (i.e. do you like wine, museums...etc what do you do for fun?)

The profile is well written but could show off your personality more. You could expand a bit more on the "describe yourselves" section.

Hope that helps and good luck to you!