Hi! While it's ok, we get a bit overrun with the Ken&Barbie comments by everyone...can you think of a clever way to say it differently? I'd take out the word "obviously." Try to be more positive about your looks (I know whereof I speak...I have such a hard time with that myself!), or at least not negative. You don't have to "make up for" anything on here. Just list the positives without trying to counterbalance anything you feel might not measure up in a profile. My husband and I are chubby and just pretty average, yet I tried to find the things that I know people like, and that we ourselves like about each other. He has nice muscular thighs, and a great voice. Both are positive comments. I could have said, "he has a bigger belly, but he makes up for it with his nice thighs." See the difference? I'd also add a few more pictures. Maybe an outdoors shot, or just a couple extra pics. I hope this helps. Gina

We've been a member for just over a year. Our profile's changed a bit since we got here, but we aren't getting many hits recently at all. Is it our profile and how it protrays us?