Yes we agree . We would also like to see pic's of the couple together and separate. We also like to see pic's from a party. We like to show pattie's tat of garfield so you can know it is her. All of our pic's are less than a year and a half and there is only one that old most are less than 9 months old. We keep them up as sort of a history. A pic blog if you will. Patrick Pattie

Same here... we get responses all the time from "couples" with absolutely the minimal info on the male half (age, height, weight and his sexual orientation), yet no picture of him. Sometimes there is actually a description, yet and still no picture of him. Yet, most of the time the profile indicates "WE". Plenty of pics of her, and on the profile she is usually listed as BI. I am not BI and have to wonder if it is her writing to get to know me better or maybe trying to "change my mind" or is she genuinely interested in my hot fella... or is it the male half writing just to me? And, yes, we've had had the same type of mail with either a pic of the female or no pics of the male (or either party) requesting "write us with your private email, phone number and open your private pics, let's meet" ........... yeah, RIGHT.

We agree with this issue 100% ! We usually see it the other way around though; couple profiles that have several public pics of the woman, but none of the man. We've heard all the excuses, but no matter how hard we try, we have a hard time respecting or having much interest in men that seem to have no problems posting pics of their S.O. on a site like this, possibly opening her up to public discovery and ridicule, while hiding his own. Only our opinion and YMMV

what is perplexing are the 'couples' who say 'they' are interested and you politely request a full body pic of the hubby (faceless OK) and you never here from them again.

lost_j1 Don't agree with you on the certs. I don't allow any to be posted to my profile. Some couples I have found have a dislike with others and rule out people that have connections to those people. I personally also don't like to kiss and tell. I have no good reason to have anyone advertise that I'm real. For the people that are interested I will make the effort to assure them and make them comfortable that I am real and on the level. Also it's a known fact that some people on this site have created a profile, paid for one month and gave certs to other profiles that they created. Then they allow the paid one to expire or whatever. So even if a profile has certs on it does not verify anything in this online world.

Current pictures are a must. With cameras so cheap and just about everyone with a cell phone camera there just is no reason to not have at least a face edited body shot.
It is completely crazy to not be able to share current pics of both yourself and a partner if she is truly involved in this lifestyle.

The next pet peeve are the excuses of "well it's only a few years old, but we haven't changed any"

I'm always posting current pictures. All of my pictures are less than three months old.

It's just sad that people play such games whether it's a real couple or a single or a single pretending to be a couple.

We love the emails that say, "sorry we don't have pics, wanna meet"

Obviously they have NOT read our profile and "what are they thinking in the first place?" OHHH they were NOT thinking...lol

LOL!!
I absolutely agree. Our pics are like a revolving door LOL, catch em while they are on there because once I take more they will change I'm sure. I honestly feel the same way about certs. It makes me nervous for a cpl to be on sls without 1 cert. But thats just me.
Shelly

Got to be kidding me. If a couple has had a profile for 2 years, then there's been PLENTY of time to get a G-rated pic of the female half on here. Puh-lease! Here's a chat I just had....................... name withheld: hi NewBeginnings2: hi, no pics of the wife on your profile? -PAUSE- name withheld: hi there name withheld: yeah sorry name withheld: she getting new pics made NewBeginnings2: you guys have been on SLS for 2 yrs though...I really don't mean to be rude, but, are you actually part of a couple? name withheld: yes -LONG PAUSE- NewBeginnings2: how about you get back in touch with us when you have a PG rated pic of her to share? -LONG PAUSE- NewBeginnings2: have a good weekend, I'm going to let you go now NewBeginnings2: bye