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TOPIC: Do I sound TOO Bi
Created by: BiFYorkCpl
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Hi. Ok, my turn for profile help. I am Bi, but my first preference is for men, the Bi-ness is an added pleasure, and sometimes I crave a woman. Ok. If you are a strictly straight couple, or straight female, would my profile come across to you as too Bi? Thanks for any imput.

Gina
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bi and bi I'd say you're profile is well done and is fine.
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what a wonderfully well done profile. I really have to work on ours, I just am at a loss for what to say at this point. Seeing well done ones like yours helps me focus a bit.

Oh and no I don't think it makes you sound too bi.
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Thank you for all your input...very helpful!

Gina
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Hey we agree about the wording a little but we know you and know how you are. The profile would not stop us. In person or in chat you can clarify the little things. Patrick pattie new pic's by the way.
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I like it...sounds good to me. I think you made your point very well. And from my stand point...When someone contacts us and she is "bi" I worry just how bi. Meaning how much is she bi...is she only interested in me..or does she find spicey , SPICEY :o). It puts presure on me ..and I still do not know just how far I can go with the "bi" thing.
My point being..I worry about that stuff..and if you contacted me and I read your profile...I would feel comfortable with you.
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We've wondered about that too. We say "she is bi and enjoys giving and receiving with women, but it isn't mandatory or expected. We respect boundaries." Even so, there are some straight/straight couples who will only play with straight/straight couples. To each their own... may as well lay it out exactly to your liking - you'll have more fun with partners who enjoy the same things as you.
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It doesn't sound too bi at all.

I'm not sure if I would go with your choice of wording though..."if you're not into that, I will reign it in"

It sounds as if you'd be making a sacrifice if a play partner weren't bisexual. Profiles that read like this, where one person would be making a sacrifice for something, it's kind of a turn off.

You may say something along the lines of, "I'm bisexual but it's not a requirement for play but an added bonus."

E
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Hi. Ok, my turn for profile help. I am Bi, but my first preference is for men, the Bi-ness is an added pleasure, and sometimes I crave a woman. Ok. If you are a strictly straight couple, or straight female, would my profile come across to you as too Bi? Thanks for any imput.

Gina
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