It's not too long, but it is negative. Anything highlighted or in Caps or in a different color is a negative statement or word. That's what people see most/first. If you really want people to read it all the way through, I'd switch the description parts with the NO parts.

It's ok to state your preferences firmly. Just be prepared for either flak, or at the least, no responses when you email people, unless they are absolutely exactly like you 100% . Good luck with that.

Gina

what the no-cheese lady said!

you can say what you want and don't want without coming across so negative. I understand the thing about wanting to cut down on emails from non-matches but most of those will email no matter what you put in your profile, but being so negative in your profile might cause people you might click with to not email you either.

PG

its not the length that is the problem it is the amount of negative things in it that make it hard to get through. You even speak negative about your own breasts!

And personally we steer clear of people who use things like "looking to spice up our marriage"

PG