Pictures, Pictures, Pictures!!!! You've got to get creative and put some pictures that make your profile interesting. When someone clicks on your profile, you want them to keep looking, so the more the better.

There....just did a little editing. I know jk4fun63...The swinging scene isn't that happening here (no clubs that that I know of in the province, and great distances to travel). So it is kind of discouraging. But it's not as bad as it sounds, we don't live in igloos or have polar bears outside....hahaha.. It's mostly a rural grain farming area where we live. We own/operate a grain farm near the town of Snowden....and had to put it as our home base. I was quite surprised that it was even on the list of choices as it has a population of less than 50 people :)

SNOWDEN, canada! wow guys. that has got to be tough for the LS. wish i had an answer for you. sorry.

bet you have one hell of a porn collection though.

I agree with Catnipfun. I'm not sure that language adds anything, and may just seem weird to some readers. I wonder how useful it is to say you aren't looking for people who create drama and want replacement partners. Does anyone say to themselves, "I'm a drama queen(king) looking to find someone better than my spouse?" When you meet them socially the first time and they tell you about their children in prison and the neighbor they've sued three times, you'll know whether you want to play with them or not. Given your location, you might want to say something about how far you'll travel, and whether you can manage day trips on a weekend. As it sounds now, anyone you meet would have to come to you. If that's true, you should say so, I guess. And if you're not getting replies, you might try expanding your desired age bracket a bit. The people who can travel (young couples with no children, empty nesters) don't fall within your range. Your profile isn't bad at all, but given your location and family situation, you'll want it to be the best it can be. To that end, I really liked the "Are you thinking what we're thinking?" part. But the emoticon doesn't display as such.

Thanks for the tips...it's tough to figure out what to put for a profile. We want it to be both naughty and serious at the same time, but don't want to freak anyone out or scare them away. Our location is a real bummer for this lifestyle...most everyone is too far away and there aren't any clubs that we are aware of :( Our pics are current...but we do need to add more and switch them up a bit..........again thanks

So we think your profile is fine and odds are your location is the main thing killing you. That said, there are a few things to perhaps think about... Tha main one is your pics. We have no idea if they are new or old, but if you've had them there a while you may want to freshen em up. We find if we leave the same pics up, over time our views per day drop and drop. New pics up? Bam. Not only do we get a ton of views, but people who previously maybe ignored our introductory message to them suddenly write as if we were new. Aside from that, there are just a couple of things to THINK about, but nothing "wrong" per se. One is about referring to a "'cock squeezing' pussy"... there are some people who get put off by crude talk. You may not want to meet those people so it might be GOOD to have them put off, but on the other hand you may not want to have anyone self-exclude. The other is where you say "Not interested in people that are looking for "replacements" (yes there are some)...Not interested in dramatics." Everyone has stuff like that - us too - but do you really think the people who ARE looking for those things are going to wait until they see a profile that says "We are looking for drama and/or to replace our spouse"? Um... no. They will contact you anyway. All you add is a bit of negativity to an otherwise positive profile. Of course anyone who doesn't contact you just because of that is an idiot and is also going to have to exclude half of the other profiles on the site, but just sayin'...

We hardly ever get any mail ....I know our location is a disadvantage, but is our profile not up to par?