You have public, private, and personal galleries available to you. In the public section, we want to see current clothed pictures showing your physique but we don't expect you to show your face. Use the photo editing tools here or free software such as Picassa to edit your pictures before putting them on the site. Your private gallery and personal galleries can be opened to people you choose and we expect to see your smiling faces, plenty of pictures of the guy, and pictures that represent the image and personality you wish to project. We want to see the guy without a hat or sunglasses . Bathing suit pictures are good. The personal gallery can get really wild or just something in its own category. Frankly, we assume that guys get hardons so we don't need to see them and in fact, they tend to turn us off. He'll get one if we get together with you. We also know you aren't virgins so you don't have to prove it with graphic photos. Keep in mind that people will meet you and while it's OK to look your best in pictures, it's not OK to mislead people by using pictures when you were 40 pounds lighter and 10 years younger. Finally, have FUN taking pictures and enjoy the afternoon (or evening) delight that can follow!

I know I may be a little late to the topic, but it gives me a chance to air a pet peeve. If you are a couple and play as a couple, there should be pictures of BOTH of you. It doesn't have to be pictures of you together, but that is nice. Clothing is optional. We would rather see a full body faceless clothed picture that a pussy or cock picture, not that those pics offend or or anything, but if we click then we will get to see them soon enough! LOL We also consider faces optional in the publicly shared pictures....we realize many people a paranoid about sharing those to freely. I was talking to a very good friend about the quality and content of pictures that people post and we agreed that most people have no idea on how to "market" themselves. A picture that looks like a mug shot is not very likely to attract the kind of attention you want. Look objectively at what you post, pictures and profiles, and ask yourself if YOU would want to meet this couple. Also, pictures don't need to be posed....some of the best pics we have were taken without notice....like the one attached here

Only post pics that you are comfortable with. There is no need for skin pics as long as people can discern your body type from the pictures. Other than that it is completely up to you and what you are comfie with.

We are new and just finished our profile, but we really want to know from those who are honestly looking - Do we need to post full skin pics in order to get people talking to us or will "regular" photos be okay. Will clothed pics that still show who we really are get any attention or does that still seem like we're trying to hide? We aren't trying to hide - just a little wary of full skin sent out into cyberspace... it's not like you can "take it back" :) Should we have skin pics that are saved for invited friends only? Since this is about both of us, should the pictures be of both of us all the time, or should it still be mixed up - some of her, some of him, some of both together? When does "posing" for your pictures just become ridiculous or even creepy (I know I'm not in to seeing someone who thinks they are doing some sort of naked contortion act, but I guess there's something for everyone!)? Sorry for all the questions, but we've seen some very thoughtful posts with some very open and enlightened people on here and we just won't know till we ask! Him (X) and Her (Jan) PS, this was originally posted in First Contacts by mistake. Any other profile suggestions are very much appreciated.