licks, we all have experiences where we meet rude couples/singles, etc. and we have moments of frustration. However, others do not appreciate negative profiles. It is a sign of possible drama...and couples shy away from drama like the plague. Saying what you want from the lifestyle is one thing...however, you should always try and say this in a non confrontational, humorous way if possible.

Thanks naughty_nurse_n_dirty_doc we try to tweak our profile a bit after your post.. tried to make it a bit shorter..lol...and take the negatives out. It seems like the negatives get added the longer your on the site... and perhaps are complaining about people instead of searching for ones to explore with. as for same room being under rules.. we like the term guide lines rather than rules. something for people to follow to have a good time rather than something to try to break. (yea we like to be different..lol) BTW saw you join our group you guys should try to come to one of our parties.. the more the merrier !!!! again thanks for you opinion, not sure if we "Fix" the problem but we did edited our profile after reading what you had to say. kissez m&m

Mostly a pretty good profile. However, there are a few spots where you get a bit negative (the section in red and caps at the end of the profile, the "note" where you talk about single men). We had this problem also - you have a bad experience and feel compelled to add a note in the profile to prevent it from happening again ... and pretty soon your profile is full of negative notes. Besides, nobody is reading that whole profile anyway, they are all perving the pics right? The only other thing I would change is putting that you prefer same-room under your "rules" instead of somewhere else. Overall, the profile could use some little tweaks but is "nicely naughty". Overall, the main reason you are probably not hearing back from people is that many on here prefer to reject other couples passively. If they don't want you for whatever reason, it is easier to just not reply rather than write "thanks but no thanks" - rude, but easy. We generally get replies to about 25% of our opening notes, and that's OK by us - weeds out the rude people right up front. - T

It the Christmas season and almost the new year. So we are asking anyone, their honest opinion of our profile. We will take any advice anyone has. We have met some great people on SLS mostly due to us contacting them first. We are active as much as our family will allow in the lifestyle, even helping with a group. But we dont seem to get any emails from people who we dont email first. Many times we dont even hear back from people we do email, since we respond to everyone, it frustrates us to no end. Guess we just love to see a little attention now and then.. (like everyone) Its nice to feel someone notices you. So just curious if it could be our profile or just us :( looking forward in reading your advice kissez M&M