checked out your profile and i must say it is very well written , very informative and outlines what your looking for , i only have one suggestion , take out the word "rules" and change it to "standard" or "limit" anything but Rule or Rules , that sort of shows a demanding statement and swinging is all about breaking all the rules , that is about the only thing i saw that needs any attention , the rest is Awesome .

hope this helps , good luck in your search , be safe and have fun .

Ok, I took out those lines....he had put them in anyway, so I wasn't insulted...lol

Welcome to the forums! For what it's worth, here's some thoughts on your profile. Overall it has a pretty good spirit, but there are a few things you may want to look at. Starting with the sentence "looking to spend time, be friends, and maybe more" sounds like you may be unsure about swinging? Do you proceed very, very slowly? The "we've met great friends on SLS, so even if there isn't chemistry... we're happy" is fine, but taken with the other line might be interrupted that you (often?) meet people you don't play with. Nothing wrong with this at all, but keep in mind it may paint a picture. Is it the picture you want to paint? The stuff about not wanting someone who will want to break you up, or play head games, goes without saying, and actually says more about your feelings of nervousness. (Is someone going to read that and say to themselves, "I was looking for a couple to break up, but rats! - looks like they don't want that. Guess I'd better write someone else." ??? -lol!) In general, it's always better to write to the people you ARE trying to reach, about the things you like. Don't waste time telling people you DON'T want to write, about what you don't want. Try to come up with ways to show your humor, your personality, and the things that light your fire. The more you can entice potential playmates with how much fun you are the better.

He put our profile on here when we joined and I finally got around to making some changes. Any advice? Good or bad....I'd like to get some opinions. Thanks. Oh, and if anyone needs me to open the private pics, I can. We have one more that's being reviewed so it should be up today.