Well, our profile contains mostly pics of my wife but this is our reasoning: we are a soft swap couple at best and are here for my wife to enjoy other women. We figure it is good to have a variety of pictures of her. There are also about 3 pictures of me. One is both of us clothed very recently on our way to a party, another is just my face from last summer. The third was my wife's idea, we call it bottom's up and is a pic of both of us laying on our bellies with our butts facing the camera. Whenever we get serious inquiries we immediately open the face pics which has 2 of my 3 pics so everyone can see the troll. Short of that we have an 'introduction' gallery with just a few blurred shots of her to give prospective dates enough information to pursue us (her) if they wish. There is a 'missus' gallery for those who are definitely interested (usually open this if face pice meet approval) and then a final gallery for people we have met and like. I guess it all sounds complicated but it isn't. It doesn't take 10 emails to get to see the pice, usually by the end of a chat I will have opend the face pics and the intro pics and possibly the missus pics. Anyway, that's how we do it. The Troll

We agree; a couples profile is more likely to catch our attention if there is a photo of BOTH available. Let's be honest, some of the sexual chemistry includes visual pleasure. So many times we've seen only photos of the better half (aka "bait") and when the partner is finally revealed, he is not as visually appealing. Truth up front is a much bigger turn-on than a blind-date.

Studz agreed my husband doesn't play with the man because he is straight BUT he likes to see a decent looking man playing with me. Watching a troll sexually playing with your wife couldn't possibly be a turn on. Lol

I agree! If you are a couple then you should have at least one pic together and not of you guys F*$king either a vanilla picture. We are not asking for a copy of your marriage certificate just a little confirmation that you are a real couple.

erm... really? required? getting bent out of shape about it?

This is all just fun - nothing about someone else's profile should get anyone bent. Don't like it? Move on. Their loss.

We have pics of both of us in our private pics, and will open them to anyone we think we might be interested in. We certainly expect people who want to meet for dinner/drinks to have pics of both of them in their private pics as well. But public profiles? We really could care less how people want to present themselves to strangers - we only care how they present themselves once we start writing to eachother.

We can't believe you'd have the audicity to want information on both people you're considering spending time with. Obviously you haven't fully excepted the concept of taking your time to meet a couple only to discover half the couple is actually a toad...but since you're already there your better half can just take one for the team because their subterfuge has really impressed you. Or..you've just wasted your time and have decided to not waste any more of your valuable time unless another couple is courteous enough to provide reasonably accurate pics of both people, real information about what they prefer and their rules, and some small assurance they are a real couple in the lifestyle (try a few certs).

Been on this site a while now, and one thing WE find lacking is equal pictures of BOTH people involved in this. When actively seeking a "couple": AS A COUPLE.... it is difficult to do such when there is only pictures of HALF the people in the profile.

It is hard enough to find one person to be attracted to let alone all four !.........

Yes the "chicks" are the obvious draw, but what is the point of chasing the beauty of there is a "beast" that can't be bothered to show face or at least body pics or heaven forbid a "vanilla" pic of them fully clothed?

A PICTURE OF BOTH PEOPLE TOGETHER SHOULD BE REQUIIRED !