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TOPIC: Background in photos
Created by: BRC749
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To all my fellow lifestylers, I know not everyone is as picky about the world as I am but i have a suggestion. PLease please please CLEAN UP YOUR AREA BEFORE YOU ATAKE YOUR PROFILE PIC. I mean come on!!! If your background looks like a hurricane just took out your room then maybe you should so some clean up. If I see a sexy lady and then I notice that behind her is just disgusting, well then I think we'll move right a long. I like to think who ever we hook up with is as clean as there living area. Can anyone else agree with me?

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Back on topic - my favorite background in a photo so far: piles of dirty clothes, with stained underwear on top of the pile ...... cables and extension cords that looked like a nest of snakes, piles of VHS tapes, family photos ... and the TV turned on, with the on-screen news program showing a famous mass-murderer with a big ear-to-ear grin on his face ! Argh !!!!!

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@ gunslngr, I checked out the profile you mentioned and think their pics look terrific. Let me know if you ever bring your camera as far north as Milwaukee.

Greeneyes, I haven't seen pictures like you mention on profiles here, but one time my parents sent me a photo taken of them by "professionals" for their church members' directory. When I opened the envelope, I wondered aloud who the hell these people were and why did they send me their picture! It was so badly photo-shopped to obscure wrinkles, probably at my mother's request, that they were nearly unrecognizable.

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Interesting comment. I like that you photograph what people really look like. Professional photos are great but often times you can't even tell it's the same person because they are so over photo edited. It's especially evident when you look at a candid shot vs a professional. You wonder if it's even the same person.

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I think it's not so much that other people see us. I worry more about virus's, hackers and other not so savory and possibly illegal things . The fact that they don't tell you in a more upfront way makes me suspicious of the intent.

If they said "by agreeing to our terms you will find your profile on as many as 40 or more other sites such as (then name them), then I know and can decide if I want that." I just read their terms and conditions again and could not find any reference to AFF putting our profiles on other sites. Which means they are doing it without knowledge or consent.

I kept a list of the sites I found my profile on and here are a few.

"YoungGirlsLookingForSex" is not a site I would want to be affiliated. It implies to me that they are girls not adults which then sounds like underage porn. "Trannydate" Seriously? "4tubedating.xmatch" Tubesites are generally porn sites (aside from Youtube). ie. porntube, redtube, etc Pornhubpersonals: pornhub is a porn site

Does that make more sense? I have the complete list if anyone is interested.

Scottsdale AZ
 
 
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Just a thought, But maybe your neighbors are saying the same about you on another adult site ;)

Ya never know.

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We're probably on a dozen other sites as free members, including AFF. This is the only site we're active on because we have the best results here. The whole point is to get your profile out in front of as many potential playmates as possible. Of course you should never post anything on the internet, especially pictures, that you don't want someone to see. Like wanna, we are who we are, and if the neighbors find out and don't like it they can move. We're not ashamed of what we do, the only difference between us and them is that we actually fulfill our fantasies, they only dream.

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@green - I actually don't really care. I knew that when hubby and I signed up for sites such as these, they'd probably use our pix elsewhere. For me, I have nothing to hide. So what if people find out I .... "have sex"...with other people. For me, it's definitely not the end of the world.

And I figure ... who really cares about what I do anyways???

But...everyone needs to do what's right for them. This is just my opinion. :)

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Thanks Naughty!

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Wannatry, I'm glad you are having success. How do you feel about know that your profile is on 40some other sites and you have no control over that?

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Greeneyes, hope you feel better soon!!!

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