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Created by: BRC749 Original Starting post for this thread:
To all my fellow lifestylers, I know not everyone is as picky about the world as I am but i have a suggestion. PLease please please CLEAN UP YOUR AREA BEFORE YOU ATAKE YOUR PROFILE PIC. I mean come on!!! If your background looks like a hurricane just took out your room then maybe you should so some clean up. If I see a sexy lady and then I notice that behind her is just disgusting, well then I think we'll move right a long. I like to think who ever we hook up with is as clean as there living area. Can anyone else agree with me?

Created by: BRC749
Original Starting post for this thread:

To all my fellow lifestylers, I know not everyone is as picky about the world as I am but i have a suggestion. PLease please please CLEAN UP YOUR AREA BEFORE YOU ATAKE YOUR PROFILE PIC. I mean come on!!! If your background looks like a hurricane just took out your room then maybe you should so some clean up. If I see a sexy lady and then I notice that behind her is just disgusting, well then I think we'll move right a long. I like to think who ever we hook up with is as clean as there living area. Can anyone else agree with me?

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User Details are only visible to members.	Scandle, thanks for your kind words. I'd open my private galleries for you and even send my website for more, but I'm blocked (SM block).
San Jose CA			Username hidden (6 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	@ gunslngr, I checked out the profile you mentioned and think their pics look terrific. Let me know if you ever bring your camera as far north as Milwaukee. Greeneyes, I haven't seen pictures like you mention on profiles here, but one time my parents sent me a photo taken of them by "professionals" for their church members' directory. When I opened the envelope, I wondered aloud who the hell these people were and why did they send me their picture! It was so badly photo-shopped to obscure wrinkles, probably at my mother's request, that they were nearly unrecognizable.
Sheboygan Falls WI			Username hidden (6973 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Interesting comment. I like that you photograph what people really look like. Professional photos are great but often times you can't even tell it's the same person because they are so over photo edited. It's especially evident when you look at a candid shot vs a professional. You wonder if it's even the same person.
Scottsdale AZ			Username hidden (150 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thanks for bringing this subject up. As I can see by the responses, it bugs plenty of people. I shoot photos for people in the Lifestyle to use in their profiles, and the response from those people is that their responses have gone up in both quantity AND quality. I shot amateur hardcore porn for a few years, using "real couples" as talent. The DP (Director of Photography) would have the crew arrive and we'd spend the first 45 minutes to an hour CLEANING these people's houses. It wasn't that they were messy or dirty, we just wanted the set to look perfect. And it did. When the lights would go up, lots of thing would appear. That and we'd have to shoot and review all angles we'd use to make sure the background was free of anything. High grade cameras show every detail and sometimes you don't see things until you are looking at the playback. Cropping helps, but doesn't always get rid of everything. I'm not saying that people need to setup a controlled studio, but tidy up - shoot a photo of the room and put the image on a large screen for review before shooting a lot. This is a dating site. I tell people who are considering me shooting them that it's about presentation. You want to show two things - that this is what you really look like - today and not 10 years ago - and that you look like you'd be fun. I try to capture the fun between couples by shooting them interacting. See the profile for Roadhouse000 for an example.
San Jose CA			Username hidden (6 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think it's not so much that other people see us. I worry more about virus's, hackers and other not so savory and possibly illegal things . The fact that they don't tell you in a more upfront way makes me suspicious of the intent. If they said "by agreeing to our terms you will find your profile on as many as 40 or more other sites such as (then name them), then I know and can decide if I want that." I just read their terms and conditions again and could not find any reference to AFF putting our profiles on other sites. Which means they are doing it without knowledge or consent. I kept a list of the sites I found my profile on and here are a few. "YoungGirlsLookingForSex" is not a site I would want to be affiliated. It implies to me that they are girls not adults which then sounds like underage porn. "Trannydate" Seriously? "4tubedating.xmatch" Tubesites are generally porn sites (aside from Youtube). ie. porntube, redtube, etc Pornhubpersonals: pornhub is a porn site Does that make more sense? I have the complete list if anyone is interested.
Scottsdale AZ			Username hidden (150 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Just a thought, But maybe your neighbors are saying the same about you on another adult site ;) Ya never know.
Philadelphia PA			Username hidden (2061 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We're probably on a dozen other sites as free members, including AFF. This is the only site we're active on because we have the best results here. The whole point is to get your profile out in front of as many potential playmates as possible. Of course you should never post anything on the internet, especially pictures, that you don't want someone to see. Like wanna, we are who we are, and if the neighbors find out and don't like it they can move. We're not ashamed of what we do, the only difference between us and them is that we actually fulfill our fantasies, they only dream.
Virginia Beach VA			Username hidden (269 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	@green - I actually don't really care. I knew that when hubby and I signed up for sites such as these, they'd probably use our pix elsewhere. For me, I have nothing to hide. So what if people find out I .... "have sex"...with other people. For me, it's definitely not the end of the world. And I figure ... who really cares about what I do anyways??? But...everyone needs to do what's right for them. This is just my opinion. :)
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User Details are only visible to members.	Thanks Naughty!
Scottsdale AZ			Username hidden (150 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Wannatry, I'm glad you are having success. How do you feel about know that your profile is on 40some other sites and you have no control over that?
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