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TOPIC: Single Men-First Contact
Created by: ChasnGwen
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I have a question for the successful single men in the lifestyle. For the most part, have you initiated contact with the ladies you have a FWB relationship with or did they contact you?

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Kibblesnbits: from you high praise indeed. Thanks kindly!

S_Couple: I absolutely agree. I take the time to read the profile since that gives a glimpse into what the person is like personality wise. While the person could be incredibly attractive, without an intellectual attraction to hold the interest I don't see it moving forward at all. What occurs between the ears is as important, to me at least, as what is happening below the neck.

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Yondude, shame you're so far away! I just enjoyed your pics. {Blush}

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If you want to get a positive reply from a genuinely interested couple/SF, contact those who are paid members or with certification AND state that they're looking for SMs.

Too often SMs just send messages to all couples and SFs they find the ladies to be attractive without even reading the profiles. If you keep doing that, you're just gonna keep missing and missing because you're shooting at the wrong targets.

Read the profiles please. Can't stress that often enough.

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So far a few contacts by me but zero interest.

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As a rule, I've always preferred to let others initiate contact with me. However, I have made a few exceptions when I wanted to go "shopping" for myself to see what was available and found a "deal" I couldn't resist.

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I don't go after men, it's just not who I am.

Either they come after me, or it's not happening. I prefer men who are confident, assertive, and sexually on the aggressive/dominant side.

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Pine manure?

My freshman year, I was told that I might kiss a Smithie, but I could Mount a Holyoke.

They weren't wrong.

BT

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Pine Mattress College is nice. From what I've heard.

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RuPaul's Drag U.

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...Massasoit....and Dean JC...

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TOPIC: Single Men-First Contact