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TOPIC: the s word
Created by: ournaughtysecret
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Does anyone else have a problem with the word "slut", or is it just me? Maybe it's just the way I was raised: I don't mind acting slutty sometimes, but actually being called a slut still bugs me some. M loves the word and likes to call me that, and he knows I don't much like the word. He's trying to get me to like being called that. Before anyone jumps to the wrong conclusion, he's really sweet about it (somehow that doesn't sound right, but I can't think of any other way to describe it) Anyway, just wanted to get everyone else's two cents worth on the subject to get an overall idea what other people think/feel about the word. Thanks in advance, ladies, Lynnie

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Nope I do not like to be called slut or any other name unless I directed the person to do so.

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You ladies have been invaded. As the male half of this couple I too have an opinion. Whatever you choose to call yourselves is okay by me. It is also okay with me that you have your man call you whatever turns you on. As for me I could not/would not ever call you the words we are discussing without your direct instruction. So, if you want me come on over, grab me by the head(either one) and scream fuck my __________, I wanna be your ______. You will make my day as I love vocal sex. I promise to not disappoint you. (GRIN) ;)

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You go girl!

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I love being a horny little slut; to me the word denotes my sexuality. I'm proud of being sexy and horny - there is absolutely nothing wrong with being called a slut.

In the other thread, I think it was pervyduo that said that words only have the power that you choose to give them. Way back when, being called a slut would be considered an insult, often used by other girls (the "good" girls), to denigrate the girls that liked to have sex. I like turning that around.

So, to each their own. I am a woman and I am a slut, and damn proud of it.

If someone has a visceral reaction to a particular word, it's a very good idea to tell potential play partners that at some point prior to getting together.

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Just wanted to post here in this old thread, because I am not the only one who does not like the two terms that have been referred to in the other thread. I am always, "Lady" RV

That is my story and I am sticking to it....grin!!!

Lake Charles LA
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As a lady the "c" and or the "s" words are both offensive to me. M

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I'm usually ok with most terms of endearment, as long as they are said in a tone that conveys that they're in earnest. I can't stand people saying things they don't mean or trying to foster a false sense of bonding, usually because they have an agenda. I deal with people honestly and I expect no less in return. I hate getting jacked around.

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I would rather be called a slut than babe. Babe is too trailer trashy to me.

Carrie

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Can I just call you Sweetie?

;^D

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For me it is who you are and how you use it. If you do not know me do not think you will get a good response by calling me a slut, bitch or anything other than Shelly. If you know me you will know what I am okay with lol.

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TOPIC: the s word