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TOPIC: how can I be more outgiong towards men
Created by: nib
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Just wondering if any of you women out there can help me out. I am a very submissive woman, who is not very outgoing towards the men. I want to get attention and do not know how to go about doing that. I want to be the one who can get my hubby and another guy to pay attention to me for awhile, instead of being the watcher in a group of couples. Anyone have any suggestions for me on how to get the male attention. I want to become more outgoing.

Mrs. Nib

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So many potential playmates/friends ... so little time ... so far away ...

(blows kiss from VI to MD)

Julia

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Hell...I'd say yes.....

smile....kiss

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In that case, Trip/JMM … (I move close, my blue eyes look up into your dark ones) if you ever visit the islands (my hand touches your knee and ever so slowly moves up) be sure to get in touch. (I lean forward, “accidentally” showing a bit of cleavage); We just love meeting new people (my hand rests on your inner thigh, as I whisper); and I adore telling an attractive man exactly what I like (I gently squeeze your thigh) and asking him if he wants to play. (The tip of my tongue is a quick butterfly touch on your ear … I lean back, take a sip of red wine, and gaze into your eyes as I await your response.)

Julia

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Try practicing at home with hubby....just for fun. I like the idea of a new persona. Is there someone you would like to be like? Imitate them.

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we went to the club last night and I opened up alot. Thank you everyone for your suggestions and support. I had a very wonderful time. Instead of putting up an invisible wall, I left it down for the night and it worked.

niblet

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Thanks sexxnpassion, I will try that. I guess in a way I also do it to feel safe. I am not a real outgiong person if I do not know you.

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Look em right in the eye, maintain contact, and don't be afraid to do more than lead the convo. Lean in a little bit, that implies interest. And just remember, we all have a wild child in us, let the "tigresse" out!!!!!!!

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oh, by the way. I also posted this in the men's forum and they have been giving alot of suggestions.

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Ok Ladies,

Let me ask a different way. What do you do to get a man's attention whether it be your man or another man?

Mrs. Nib

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Just wondering if any of you women out there can help me out. I am a very submissive woman, who is not very outgoing towards the men. I want to get attention and do not know how to go about doing that. I want to be the one who can get my hubby and another guy to pay attention to me for awhile, instead of being the watcher in a group of couples. Anyone have any suggestions for me on how to get the male attention. I want to become more outgoing.

Mrs. Nib

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