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TOPIC: first orgasm at 30 ugh
Created by: DANANDFDN
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Okay, I have a confession (sort of). I am 32 years old and have been sexually active since 17. But I never fully experienced an actual orgasm until this year. I am not sure as to why or anything like that. I do know this: when D and I were talking about exploring the Lifestyle (as you will already know, we were like rabbits <3-4 times a day> it was and still is great). Anyway, we were fooling around on the living room floor (after the kids were in bed) and all of a sudden it felt like my body was experiencing an electric jolt then I felt this pulsing sensation. OH MY GOD, I had never experienced anything like it!!! Afterwards, I was in a bit of a daze and asked D what was that. He just smiled at me and said "I knew it, I knew it. All these years and this is the first time you have actually orgasm". I guess my question to you is this: anyone else reach 30 before experiencing their first orgasm? Or am I the only one (please don't let it be so) warmly, F

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I think I can attest to the squirting phenom, I have witnessed 3 women now that have the ability and it doesnt smell, taste or look like urine. And they would have had to drink a gallon of water to release that much! It was like a storm!

I have just found out that I, too, can do that, but only one man has got me there.

I think its male doctors that did the studies and we all know that they havent a clue about us women. Just look at the men who think PMS and Post Partum Depression is all in our heads!

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Ladywife, im glad to hear that you and your daughter are that close and comfortable with each other and am glad to hear you helped her out.

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I originally didn't answer this thread because my experience isn't direct and I was hesitant to get too personal about one of my children. But I feel this has to be much more common than the number of answers would indicate just from listening to other women talk. One of my daughters was sexually active for ten years before some good French food and wine on a special just us evening in Manhattan relaxed her enough to say "Mom, I don't know if I've ever had an orgasm." Naturally, I replied that if she didn't know if she ever had one, she hadn't. I felt so bad for her because she'd been troubled about it for such a long time and felt inadequate sexually. We had quite the talk about experimentation both by herself and then guiding her fiancee. It took her awhile but she was finally able to first achieve alone with a vibrator (anybody ever had the experience of taking their daughter vibrator shopping?) , then with him through oral and finally through intercourse. All the way through her journey Mom was her cheerleader reminding her she was just fine and merely needed to discover where her personal "buttons" were. I wonder if we're so conditioned by TV, movies, etc. to think we should all have our first experience and from there on out it's all va va va voom?

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Really because for some reason I use an english accent in my head, well usually. LOL. I say like too much but no I don't talk like a valley girl, at least i don't think.

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Wow. I wonder how many women out there (sls) still have never orgasmed? If you think about it the three so brave to post here were in their 30's and there are many in their 30s or under on the site now so there must be a small percentage still waiting. My friend is 20 and she's cute and has still never orgasmed and I know it's because she's too self conscious of her body. Good lord she's never touched herself. I always have these little fantasies of me showing her how to do it but I know it would take a long time. For any of you gals that have a problem achieving the orgasm it's much easier doing it yourself at first then move onto touching yourself during sex, eventually you'll be in tune with yourself enough to do it vaginally. Baby steps.

I still am not sure to believe this squirting phenomenon because most docs say there's no gland to produce any other substance than urine that goes through the urethra. I've seen it in porn but there's no facts to support that it wasn't urine.

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I want to thank all of you wonderful women who responded. Your kind words and encouragement are truly appreciated!! Thank you for making me realize that I am not alone in this. You all are great!!!

Kisses all around!

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DandD.... feel not alone. I had my first orgasm at the age of 35. I was married at 21 for 7 years. Remarried when I was 35. I can't say I had my first orgasm the first time my current hubby and I had sex, but I did "learn" that I was too tense and nervous to achieve an orgasm. Once my current hubby help me understand that it wasn't a bad thing to "enjoy" sex, it just happened, and happens all the time anymore. I used to think I was the only one who didn't know how to achieve an orgasm for 35 years. My point of view on it, I'm just thrilled it finally happened. (and happens again and again and again)

Hope this makes you feel less alone.

Lora

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Did you know 15% of ppl (men included) will never orgasm in their lifetime, period. So feel lucky! :)

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I go to another web site, Freddy and Eddy dot com, which is run by a married couple (male and female). Freddy wrote that Eddy had recently had her first orgasm. It was on the coffee table, I remember that. She was masturbating for him. Her age is not listed, but she looks to be over 35.

Hey, sex can be good w/o orgasms. If they show up now, HURRAY!

You sound like you are embarrassed or something. Hey, why are you embarrassed about having an orgasm at age 30? What does that mean? It means we should have an ORGASM PARTY for you! And celebrate your first orgasm! Wheeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

Jen

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I was 17 when I married my first husband. I thaught I was having good sex. i thaught i was having orgasms. boy was I wrong. I met Nate 6 years ago. When we had sex the first time. I had an orgasm unlike anything I even experience. I even squirted. It kinda scared me the first time. Then i figured out what it was. Thank god for a good shaped cock let me tell you !

Thinks you might find out for yourself though.. hehehehe..

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