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Depends on the man for me. I like different men for different reasons, and my poly ass is just wired that way. My one friend has wonderfully amazing chest hair and i love his voice. And he is very vocal. So running my fingers through his chest hair and listening to his moaning was omg nice. My other friend has amazing blue eyes and a gorgeous smile. To me, each man is unique, and so are my turn ons.

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You'd like Mr.Sexus. If he says anything at all, which would be rare, he has such a sexy low voice that it's a turn on to hear him say anything. I am generally drawn to the quieter thinker type guys. They are usually a surprise, in a good way, in bed and have a quiet confidence that I like. The outgoing "life of the party" type guys are just fun. The quieter ones, in my experience, are the ones who blow my mind. Usually.

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Most of the men I have actually preferred have been somewhat quiet, outside of some really honest {but exciting} sounds. My ex that I started out on sls with was a potty mouth and a "director" and I never was comfortable with that. It didn't seem very "honest" to me and really threw me off my groove.

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I don't like "potty mouth" per se, but some erotic whispering is very desirable to me, and I have been known to get rather *loud* at certain moments. I like a vocal man too!!!

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Sex is one time I don't talk much. I'm not silent.....but I don't talk much. And potty mouth during sex turns me off.

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I think there has to be a nice balance when someone talks during sex. Too much talk is distracting. Then what is talked about is important. But when the guy says the right things in the right way at the right time, it is a huge turn on for me.

I had one that talked just to hear himself talk during dinner and OMG during sex. Constant talking. Most of it saying the same damn things over and over. It was distracting as I started wondering if there was going to be any variation in the order of the words. (Okay, he wasn't all that wonderful in the sack and I didn't know if the talking was suppose to make up for it or caused it).

However, another guy talked but not too much. There were times when he could barely say anything because things got so intense and that was nice.

I find that when the talking gets to much I try to kiss them or otherwise occupy their mouth. It seems to work for the most part.

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omg. For me, an aggressive ass man is a turn on. I am not a woman you would walk up to and grab on, I am not a toucher or a hugger outside of fuck situations. And if I am not sexually attracted to you, keep your hands in your pockets playa. But if I do want to fuck you, you'd better bring it. I am so in love with my submissive side lately, and dom males are the bee knees to me. What annoys me? A funny guy in the bedroom. Sex is an incredibly serious thing to me, so if he starts cracking jokes and shit, I will look at him as if he has lost his damn mind lol.

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@meandher - Sorry, I guess I don't quite understand your question. What's wrong with you in regards to what?? Talking during sex??? Or not being able to talk about swinging with your husband during everyday life??

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there is nothing wrong with you. I think everyone gets hot when sexy talk is happening in the bedroom but to bring it up in regular convo is akward. It is what it is.

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I find for myself its just not a priority sometimes and then other times I am all into the going and having fun. Welcome back stay safe. :)

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