Women that were cautious that now embrace it: Swingers Discussion 199029

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Women that were cautious that now embrace it: Swingers Discussion 199029

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TOPIC: Women that were cautious that now embrace it

Created by: jebasce Original Starting post for this thread:
Just wanted to start a thread about women that were introduced to the lifestyle that maybe apprehensive at first and now enjoy it. me and my wife would like to know your story if you have time to type it lol

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User Details are only visible to members.	Don't worry about the co-worker. He's in the lifestyle too and should understand the rules. If he doesn't a simple whispered comment into his ear about sexual harrassment at work will shut him up.
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I grew up very modest, new to this but was finally having fun trying new things this last year. Yesterday a male co worker from friended me on FB then asked me if I'm on ( another site ). Which we are but I was having so much fun I forgot for a little while that we are exposed. Now I am embarressed because outside of this I am a quiet person. Its all I can think about. I hope when I go back to work it sorts itself out. I didn't answer back, defriended on FB and deleted our account on the other site. He didn't contact me on that site, I didn't see his account and am fretting a little. How does everyone else deal with this? ( let me add I've been a very reserved person until a year ago and just started experiementing)
Fairfield CA			Username hidden (1 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	About a year and a half ago, I met a couple who just wanted to perform for a guy. We met several times where I just watched them and then we hung out for a while. They were a great couple and I had a lot of fun. About a month or so into our meetings, he was doing her missionary on the bed and she motioned for me to come over. I glanced at him and he had this look of "Finally!" on his face. She unzipped me and gave me a great bj. We did some light oral, massages, breast playing, for a few months and eventually worked up to threesomes. Over a year later, we regularly meet for threesomes and 1on1 for her and me. They started off very cautiously. They told me they tried playing in front of several guys, but the guys all left because they wouldn't wait for her to get comfortable. They were a really cool couple so I stuck with it and I've very happy I did.
Fort Washington MD			Username hidden (40 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	when I went to a club in Vegas and was totally anonymous, I found out just what an exhibitionist I was! Who knew? I was always so very self conscious about my body, and lacking in self esteem, etc. It was a boost. Good experience. G.
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (6056 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	How long do you think an appropriate time would be ...for this process of being cautious turning into embracing it? It is possible I am in reverse. lol... Starting to feel like maybe it's best to drop out of it. Maybe it's just taking too long, or maybe the times in between are too long and far apart, or maybe it's just not for me. guess time will tell me this answer.... I started this too late in life for me I think...
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	once upon a time, i was modest hahahaha. When we first went to clubs I was so shy, I was embarassed to be seen in my bra. I no longer have these issues. I have become more selective with who is around me closely in private situations however.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23661 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Welcome to the forums jebasce! ;) We too started this past year, however, I am still in a perpetual state of apprehension for one reason or another... lol. Are you guys new to the lifestyle and one of you are very apprehensive as well? Lady K
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	jebasce, welcome to the forums! Hey, I was the perfect example of what you are asking about lol. I was introduced last year by my ex-boyfriend. Apprehensive does not even become to describe how I looked at him after he had told me about the lifestyle. I was shocked that people actually CHOOSE to have sex with someone else than their partner because they ENJOY it... But I was more curious than anything else, so I gave it a shot. Well, almost one year later, just like in Whitesnake's song, "here I go again, on my own", and I almost cannot believe how vanilla I had been before lol. And guess what, now I also CHOOSE to have sex with others because I ENJOY it... When I was just starting out, I was way more than cautious, I was just damn slow lol. I really appreciated that my ex-bf has never pushed me to do anything I was not ready for. But once I broke through, there was no going back to vanilla lol. Being a part of this has liberated me in countless ways. Best example was when I had my work evaluation and my bosses told me that I had become very outgoing, open, friendlier than ever and all around genuine, great person. Oh, if they only knew why!!! LMAO ;^D Yes, I embrace the lifestyle!
Panama City Beach FL			Username hidden (1934 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Just wanted to start a thread about women that were introduced to the lifestyle that maybe apprehensive at first and now enjoy it. me and my wife would like to know your story if you have time to type it lol
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TOPIC: Women that were cautious that now embrace it