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We ask that the women talk for one reason, We don't like blind dates. More times than not the female half has not seen our profile and after she and my wife have talked and she does take the time to look at our profile , they are no longer interested in meetting. Which is fine with us,it keeps us from wasting our free time and hard earned money..


 
 
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As a woman who has played both alone in the past and as part of couple-- I can tell you firsthand -- I experienced a few issues with 1 -2 SM from time to time. But OVERALL, in this lifestyle - the most annoyingly stupid problems I incurred came from WOMEN, stuff ranging from another SF getting territorial over some SM who was a one-time fuck, another similar scenario but with a married woman appearing to regard another SM. Then in my current partnership, we sometimes encounter half of couples that want us to play with them as individuals - NOT COOL.

So yes, imo, since most complaints I have heard regarding jealousy seem to be about the women. I think it best if 2 chicks can talk on the phone or a meeting would be preferable. It's better to find out in advance if the females are going to play nice, instead of being the man with his cock buried balls deep in a woman's pussy and having your wife demand to go home immediately.

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"What is curious why would any women like to be referred to as a kitty with claws? I do not ever view myself or any women that way. But, it just goes to show everyone has a different take on things."

Wow, someone must have taken one too many serious pills.

What I find curious, is that you place so little value on the other half of your swinging equation, that you think it's perfectly OK to completely disregard something so simple that would help them feel more comfortable and relaxed... not because it would be a hassle or a problem for you, but simply because you don't see the point and apparently don't give a rats ass about anyone other than yourself as long as YOUR needs are met.

If you don't see where that's rude or inconsiderate, then I don't know what to tell you other than I've lost just a little bit more faith in humanity.

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SO when you meet you don't chat? you sit there and just stare at each other in silence? do you throw hand signals? write signs?

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I guess it all depends on what your seeking in sexual partners. What one couple may see as rude another does not. We prefer meeting in person not to chatting. For us it is all about sexual physical attraction. If a friendship develops then we can chat - lol.

What is curious why would any women like to be referred to as a kitty with claws? I do not ever view myself or any women that way. But, it just goes to show everyone has a different take on things.

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We generally prefer to meet people in person, since neither of us really enjoys sitting on the phone gabbing with people we don't yet know.

Having said that, if the other couple feels more comfortable with the girls talking before an actual meeting occurs, we're happy to comply. It doesn't hurt us any to spend 5 minutes on the phone saying hello, and the other couple is putting themselves out there just as much as we are. It's disrespectful and selfish (in our opinion) to completely ignore their needs while focusing on our own right from the start.

Plus, as others have stated, if the two women can't get along socially then it's highly unlikely that the group dynamic will be good. Some people prefer to discover that the kitties have claws while there is some distance between them.

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It is interesting reading how people select who they play with. For us, interviewing the women is my hubby's task and mine is the guy. For me whether I like the women is not that important because it isn't that I will be playing with her. It i way more important a sexual connection between hubby and her exist and her husband and I. In addition, since everyone is in the same room I do not have to have a one on one conversation . For us not all couples we meet will be more then that. I guess it shows it is all good. There are couples for all to have fun :)

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"We are alittle different, we don't want to talk on the phone or chat or even be long term friends. We do it for the sex. I know there are couple that want to meet all the time and become friends but that is not us. We just want to Fuck ya. Lol "

We aren't necessarily looking for friends here either and we do not waste time playing online games of chit chat, one simple call and we meet or we don't . We neither need nor want your life story or dreary details of your daily life and for the most part we have little interest in repeats unless a couple is exceptional in every aspect. We have fun with our playmates and only have relationships with our friends and don't mix the 2 . Side note : typically once we become friends" the sexual aspect looses it's appeal. That being said I'm not fucking anyone I can't have an enjoyable conversation with .Once we meet with worry about chemistry but there will be no meeting without a conversation and there will be no sex if she is a BITCH. Granted he could be the issue but first and foremost my concern is HER , men are typically much easier to like and get along with...not always but I generally have a very good rapport with most men, chemistry is the issue there.

Mrs Sav

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That's right Uriah, but you did get to fuck on Wednesday, and I really enjoyed listening in to your fun. As a matter of fact, Tarzan, you should be expecting a phone call early this afternoon........... from Jane.

See U Soon Baby:)


 
 
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"If some female (married or single)......"

...which is why I did not fuck this past Monday.

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