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I adore a nerdy guy - still waters run deep with them. They need to be clean and trimmed. I don't mind a few extra pounds but not obese. Good teeth and fresh breath. I know it's cheesy but it's great when a guy's eyes twinkle a little when they smile. The most incredible playmate was this adorable be-speckled slightly balding 30ish guy - talk about totally not expecting a walking jackhammer from this quiet reserved gentleman.

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A nice guy with a bit of bad boy thrown in. Secure in himself and confident.

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lol

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I've always liked the visual aesthetic of a tallish (5'11"-6'2") with broad shoulders tapering down to a nice tight round bootie. But I have found myself totally falling for guys shorter than that, so it's not mandatory. I absolutely love a clean-shaven face, especially if he has a nice chin/jawline. Laughlines and other signs of character on a face are attractive to me. And warm, intelligent eyes...nothing is a bigger turn-off to me than cold, beady reptilian eyes! As for dress, I like a guy that looks comfortable in anything he wears, whether it's gym clothes, worn jeans and a tee, a pullover and slacks, or dressed to the nines---or just his skin. A confident air, without cockiness or pretense is uber-hot to me.

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I forgot to say I don't like "pretty boys" where they primp more than me! And are so in love with themselves."

I think that goes for anyone really. A person who does not have humility is an ugly person...and I do not care how physically beautiful they may be. We saw a couple at the club recently and yes, she is a knock out. Physically absolutely perfect, the genetic 2%. Tiny frame, gorgeous breasts, face, etc etc and etc. And then...you met her. Condascending, snobby, eletist...you really felt that she was doing you honor just by seeing you as a human. And I have a friend who is the opposite. She is not physically pretty, just being honest. She has had a hard life, missing front teeth, etc. And when we walk in she gives me a huge hug, asks me how I am, dances with me...and I love her to pieces. I will take her over Ms. Thang 7 days a week.


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I forgot to say I don't like "pretty boys" where they primp more than me! And are so in love with themselves.

I had a date before I got married with such a guy. He was late and explained that he had his hair dyed and they got dye on his ear so he had to go home to scrub it off. Ok, then. Then he spent 1½ hours telling me about how rich he was and all the companies he owned. Oh, and that he had 51 first dates in 51 days and still couldn't find a girlfriend. I told him I was #52. The waiter came by and asked if we wanted more wine. He looked at me and said no. When we left, we were parked in different directions. He patted me on the back and said good luck on match and walked towards his car. lol.....I think it took months of therapy to get over him. NOT!

Honestly? I found that the better looking and "pretty" a guy is, the more vain and selfish guys seemed to be. Give me a handsome, rugged, masculine man anyday. Oh...wait..I have one!

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I like the tall runner type body not the bulk body type. He must smell clean and no facial hair. Nice teeth is a must. He must be able to dress nice. Jeans are a turn off to me. He also must have a penise size between 6-8 with a nice girth.

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Perhaps you should check out the "short guys" thread in the open forum.

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I like a guy whose smile lights up his face and it shows in his eyes. Manicured hands is a must for me. Ok, I don't mean they have to go get manicures, but trimmed nails, neat cuticles and knows what lotion is. Bitten nails or long nails and rough torn cuticles are a big eeewwwww for me. Feet too. Oh and polished, well cared for shoes. I kind of figure if a man takes care of his hands, nails and shoes, the rest is probably taken care of too.

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Absolutely, fat pudgy, soft men are not my cup of tea.

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