What to do after a break up!: Swingers Discussion 1930771021

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TOPIC: What to do after a break up!

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User Details are only visible to members.	I def need a road trip to PCB. :)
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User Details are only visible to members.	Huh... just when we thought we knew everyone in Panama City Beach... lol! Actually, I think we've run into your former other half a few times. Good luck to both of you girls!
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User Details are only visible to members.	Oh, she was giving advice ? Sorry, I could not concentrate pass the photos ;)
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User Details are only visible to members.	Well, thank you captain Bob and good morning neighbor!
Panama City Beach FL			Username hidden (1934 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Good Morning! The situation you described is exactly the thing you should flee from. When my boyfriend and I were still together, it was happening all the time. My work is seasonal so now I have a lot of time off (bummer...), therefore I was spending quite some time at home. I would be on the site most of the day goofing of on forums and reading them and let me tell you, I was being IMed by couples constantly. I would answer out of curiosity, after all I didn't have anything better to do lol... I was online anyways. ALWAYS it turned out it was the guy online chatting with me, asking for a hookup, they would be in front of the computer naked, asking me to turn my cam on. I actually did for one guy from a couple that we knew in passing and first thing he asked me was to strip for him on cam. HELL NO!!! It became so bothersome that I keep IM off now. As far as amount of mail, I can't answer that yet. I created my account just a few days ago and for right now it is hidden from everyone except for a few folks that I know and I had to email them to allow them to view my profile. With the holidays and all I didn't want to be overwhelmed. And it seems a little awkward to me to contact my ex-boyfriend now and ask him to remove my pictures and info about me. But I will have to do it, probably right after Christmas. I can't do it myself, because after we broke up he changed the password FIRST THING. I found it quite childish, but whatever... But going back to the subject, out of those people who have acces to my profile, 3 of them have already told me that I will get A LOT of attention! Lol... When I looked at your pictures, I have to tell you, you are absolutely GORGEOUS and yes, you will get a lot of attention too... I don't play with women a whole lot, but damn, it seems you really float my boat! And I mean it! All the good people are just too far away... Do you ever vacation in NW Florida...?
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User Details are only visible to members.	Michelle, let me email you and after you reply you will be able to view my profile :)
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User Details are only visible to members.	Totalbabe-Thank you so much for all of your kind words and helpful advice. Interesting how much we seem to have in common!! I have talked to a few couples and told them I am now single but even though I have been clear about being most interested in the focus being on female play I get the feeling the male half is the one most interested in getting together. Although I don't want to be deceitful I have considered leaving the profile listed as a couple so that I can be more selective and not get bombarded. How has it been going for you so far? We can switch to email if that's more comfy for you as well if there are things you don't wish to share publicly.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Michelle, and one more thing: it is absolutely fantastic that you want to carry out your fantasies. However, you may come across people who will try to lure you into meeting them by saying that they want the same thing that you do... But come playtime, they will change their tune and will try to pressure you into doing something you DO NOT want to do. Never ever, ever never cave in to pressure, nobody has the right to force you to do something you are not OK with. It is perfectly fine to get up and leave right then. Stand your ground and when things take an unexpected turn, speak up! This is all done at free will. That is a beauty of the lifestyle, there are so many types of people out there that you will find your match no matter what. It will take time but it will happen. Be yourself and smile and be upbeat and positive, the rest will come.
Panama City Beach FL			Username hidden (1934 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Michelle, as far as your account name is concerned, I would wait till your paid membership expires, and then just delete this account and make a new one. I don't think there is a way to change your member name on the existing account. If you happen to get a few certs you may want to consider keeping this account, but it all depends on how you feel about the whole cert thing and how much you hate your screen name lol!
Panama City Beach FL			Username hidden (1934 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Dear mls31, I cannot believe I am reading this post, the reason being that me and my boyfriend broke up just last week... Incredible! My situation was probably a little different than yours, in my case my boyfriend introduced me to the lifestyle. before that happened I had had no earthly idea that something like that even existed. But just like you, we parted ways for totally personal reasons. Suddenly I am on my own... And hell yes, I am staying in the lifestyle! During the time we were together I came up with a few fantasies and yes, we made it happen. Now, being on my own, I will still make my fantasies come true! There is only one difference: I absolutely have to be very careful and even more selective. Single women seem to be in high demand around here! Lol... And if you really want to be with a woman, it will happen. Stay strong... And very patient. You will receive your fair share of one liners from folks who will not read your profile and who will not be a match. Be selective and trust your gut feeling. If it sounds suspicious, then it probably is no good. Ask for a phone call with both a man and a woman at the same time, or chat on cam with BOTH of them present so you can really see it is a couple. Never assume that a single woman profile really is a single woman. Try profiles with certs and pictures. Meet in very public place where you know you feel safe. As far as your profile goes, change it to a single woman at your earliest convenience by contacting tech support. Or if it was your boyfriend's profile, just create your own and ask him to remove anything that pertains to you (but from the way it reads, I think it is your profile). When my break up happened, I simply created my own profile, uploaded a few pictures and I paid for lifetime membership the very next day. Being a paid member with pictures instantly increases your credibility. So you are on the right track! Just don't rush into anything you are not totally sure of. Take care, have fun but above all, be safe!
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