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User Details are only visible to members.	Interesting observation but I disagree. The comments made about strippers implied they were less respectable because of their choices. My reply simply called out the hypocrisy of making those type of judgments. I do judge people, as individuals. Not all lawyers are crooks, not all politicians are on the take, not all strippers are crack whores. My comments were simply to give an opposing opinion, not shame anyone into my way of thinking. As for what gets said in public or behind my back? I've been around long enough to know who says what and you know me well enough to know I don't give a shit.
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11415 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Shame was directed at you :). Because that is what you tried to do with your original line and proceeded to so with the rest of your posts. At no point have I tried to shame anyone, the OP asked a question, I answered exactly how I feel/think about it. I'm not the fake bamboorinas from the forums who play nice in public then rip you up in private. I say what's on my mind, you know this better than most around here.
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12211 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"I just think that women can easily make money using their brain instead of their body." But it's their choice, right? Once again, a waitress who wears skimpy clothing for tips isn't using a whole lot of brain power but she is somehow different from a stripper?
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11415 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I find it interesting that you would use the term "shame" in your post M since that is exactly what you are doing. Yes, we all make judgments but that doesn't mean we have to belittle those who think differently. I thought naughty offered a valid counter-point to Rings and Mrs. Sav and certainly didn't see where she tried to shame them into agreeing with her.
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11415 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	No, this is not true. I don't think that strippers are automatically prostitutes and drug addicts, not at all. I just think that women can easily make money using their brain instead of their body.
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12211 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"Going to dig up an old performance pic and post it just for shits and giggles." Please do! I agree naughty, the attitudes expressed here seem to come from what people have seen on TV and in the movies. Stripper = prostitute/drug addict.
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11415 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	p.s. Like Rings stated, most would think less of me because I swing, I'm completely comfortable with that.
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12211 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Trying to shame people because they're doing exactly what you are but are more open vocal and honest about it is quite telling. Everybody judges, from the person that walks down the street that talks to himself/herself, to the mother who slaps her toddler on his face, to the couple fighting in public, to the woman dressed provocatively gyrating her hips in public, to the couple that is dressed immaculately. Good back or in-between is still a judgement. You can't shame people into your line of thinking. In my opinion, there are better ways to make a living. I'd have the same opinion of a male stripper/dancer as I do of a female dancer. Would I treat them differently than anyone else? heck no. Mrs. Sav, Rings, great posts.
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12211 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I find it very disheartening to find these kinds of attitudes among people who are so proud of their "open-mindedness". As a former exotic dancer, I actually resent being viewed as on par with a heroin-addicted attorney. With exception of dropping some (legally-obtained) viagra with my man recently, I don't use drugs (ladies, I highly recommend trying it!!) I know I probably had a radically different approach to things than most, --I had done FAMILY entertainment/clowning for several years before switching over to adult entertainment (hey, a recession hit and a girl's gotta buy shoe somehow!), but I had eyes in my head and had awareness of what was going on around me and the uncharitable comments I have seen on this thread would only be merited by less than 10% of the people I worked with over the years. Many of us actually focused on putting on an actual show, providing entertainment value, not to mention investing in high-quality costumes and maintenance on the same. MOST of us carried ourselves in a lady-like manner and expected to be treated accordingly. Quite frankly, and this is probably a shame to have to say, many of my regular customers treated me in a more courtly manner than many of my boyfriends, and with no expectations of anything in return. Maybe clubs have changed over the last several years, and maybe because to me it was a livelihood not a lifestyle....Going to dig up an old performance pic and post it just for shits and giggles.
Atlanta GA			Username hidden (465 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Nic, I hate to disagree with you since you are scumptious; however, I think an attorney who is a drug addict and a stripper would be in the same category, at least for me. But a waitress that is good looking and is making good tips is by no means in the same category- unless she is taking her cloths off and stripping : ) . In addition, I would not be surprised if people thought less of me b/c I swing, but I would understand their viewpoint. I think everyone has their own set of opinions based on their value system. I by no means would encourage my niece or nephew to become a stripper or to see this as a viable occupation option. And if my neice and nephew told me they were I would still love but be disappointed. But that is my take.
Howell MI			Username hidden (1615 post)

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