The Elusive Single Bi Femme: Swingers Discussion 54424

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User Details are only visible to members.	Ocean, I go to the clubs all the time as a single. It can be overwelming if you are totally alone. Best thing is to have atleast one other person there that you know or want to meet. Sometimes I feel like a sheep in a field of wolves........ Once you get in and get settled, everyone will make you feel like part of their group. You have to be social and not a wallflower though. Just enjoy the time and the people and ALWAYS rely on the staff if anyone or anything bother's you. They have a tendancy to keep us unicorn's very safe, as we are such a commodity at the clubs.
Lancaster PA			Username hidden (2416 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Oceansoul, I can't imagine you being left out at a lifestyle club if you attended on your own. But yes, I can see your point that the first time by yourself would be scary. Make sure people you know are there the first time you attend on your own. S
Cambridge VT			Username hidden (6303 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	As a bif , a fantasy of mine is being in a sense found out that Im bi or have that bidar lol. I really want to be seduced. I have gaydar but my bidar isnt that good lol. I know its hard for anyone to know or to think how someone is. The hardest part is to take a chance to find out lol. I would like to go to a lifestyle club by myself but Im worried about sitting there feeling very left out. Ive been with couples but i really want to go by myself. Should I?
Lockport IL			Username hidden (388 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We've met three single bi women on this site. We did NOT contact them, since I can only imagine how overloaded their mailboxes are. Each of them contacted us, and we agreed to meet. We've played with two out of the three. I agree with the person who talked about the rules. I was amazed at what some of them have told me about the "rules" that couples make. We have no rules when it comes to playing with a single. The "rules" if there are any are made after we discuss what we all want. My advice is to go out and meet them in places other than online. Since looking for a single bi fem isn't why we're here on the internet, waiting for them to contact us, works for us. Triple, the problem with your statement about freshly divorced women is that it doesn't apply to all of them, nor does it apply even to some. When I was divorced from my first hubby, I got onto a single's dating site (a tame one). I was inundated by emails from single men who said basically what you've just said. Every one of them struck out. Better luck is had by all when people are treated with respect. S
Cambridge VT			Username hidden (6303 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I have met several here on bi-fems on SLS. I had little success on other sites for bi-fems, but most those sites were not geared for that. I will say that I find many are part of a couple, but we have a few single bi-fems like me in our area. RaVEN ( :
Fort Worth TX			Username hidden (8590 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	we have met 4 from this site and 1 at a club who has now joined the site.... I would say its a matter of how your act and what you say......
Bridgeport PA			Username hidden (12781 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	One thing we learned a few years ago, you cannot actually meet any on SLS. Jan
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User Details are only visible to members.	As a former bi-curious and then bi single woman (married now), it wasn't as easy as you think. I'd meet with couples that I'd emailed back and forth with and there were more issues than action. Either the woman was doing it for the man or they both wanted to play with me, but not allow me to play with them.....more rules than what i could handle. I ended up going to clubs with men just so that I could play with women....eventually met a guy that would swing with me so that I could play.....ended up marrying him <laughing>. My advice is this.... Just like when you were dating, it takes a connection. Find a bi-curious and allow them feel comfortable with you. Have the woman do the talking. Most bi-curious women have this fantasy of friends first and developing into more. I didn't....just wanted to play, but most do. sus
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