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Carrie, I think that is a HUGE key....the apology. I do not expect anyone to be perfect since I am damn sure not perfect either. My dad, he has ZERO remorse. As a matter of fact with him...he says that this is just the way it is. He said he wanted nothing to do with being a father or husband, and he knows that my mom and i suffered for it...but thats just how it is. I stood there looking at him like omfg, really? Really? At least he could feel bad about it LOL
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I have good parents. They definitely made mistakes. My mother was verbal abusive. She realizes that and has since apologized. I also realized what my mother was going through, at the time and have forgiven her.
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i was #5 of 6. i think the oldest was the favorite. i dont think my parents were the best. i never remember my mother taking care of me, always brothers or sisters took care of me or my grandmother, probably because she was so overworked with 6 kids. and an overworked father who didnt want to be bothered when he got home.
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I'll join your club. It sucks when your mom introduces your little sister to people and they already know everything about her...and congratulate her on how amazing she is. And then she introduces me " This is Erica..."..." Oh, hi Erica. What do you do?"
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It sucks failing so much, as a child.
so true. i always felt that i was a disappointment to my parents. |
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I got the opposite. My dad was fixed and 10 years, after my brother, I was born. They called me the miracle child. I was the chance God gave them, to do it right this time. So, expectations were always very high and I couldn't reach them. It sucks failing so much, as a child.
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i think some women have a child/childen, then blame or resent the kids for their situation. I really feel that my mom is this. She will die without admitting it...but she did not want a child and i was the condom that broke lol. And, because i was born...she was required in her mind to stay in her unholy marriage. Gina and i relate so much because we had such similar childhoods. Its hard to love who you see in the mirror when you know you were never wanted in the first place.
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Try living as if you were a botched abortion attempt and see how well your self esteem turns out! :)"
ugh. i love you. Yeah, i feel you. My sin was being born female. See, my dad would tell my mother and I that "real women" have sons. And my mother was no real woman, since I was a mere female. |
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My adopted mom told me that my birth mother had probably tried to self abort me and it didn't work. (it was illegal in 1960)
Try living as if you were a botched abortion attempt and see how well your self esteem turns out! :) later on, as I was older, a couple people asked/pointed out that there was no way for my adopted mom to have known that; that she was just being intentionally hurtful It's a wonder we are all as sane as we are! Gina |
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