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Don't hate sluts. I have been that slutty girl at a club that fucks all of the guys , :-)

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Sb311. , NicAtNight. , and. Savandwin Thank you for your thaughts and comments. It helped.. ; )

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Blondie,

I am sure what you are feeling is uncomfortableness with behavior that is foreign to your own and you found her behavior shocking and perhaps tasteless. I too suffer from pangs of "Oh my God I can't believe so and so is acting like that" Some behaviors would be completely out of character to me. When I was new to this all I had to focus myself to keep my mouth shut , I am sure I looked like a tourist with a sense of bewilderment , shock and awe on my face quite frequently. Rest assured it does get easier or perhaps you just become more immune to sights you will see. The challenging part is putting aside your expectations of other peoples behavior based on your our limits and preferences. There is nothing "wrong" with her behavior for her and her partner and surely not her playmates. As for the fact that people are "talking" about her if I were you I'd keep my thoughts, judgements and opinions to myself or between my partner and I. Trust if they are gossiping about her you too could be next. Women are catty, mean spirited creatures and gossip will bite you in the ass every time.Clarify how you want to play and what makes you comfortable and overlook of ignore what you aren't comfortable with. I'd also spend a few minutes questioning why you are so worried about it? Sometimes women get jealous of all the attention another gets even if the behavior tactic they are using isn't something we'd EVER do and are perhaps even repulsed by. For my own true confession I am still shocked by a lot I see in clubs and have to remind myself that just because I would NEVER do that, there is nothing wrong with the person doing it....they're having fun their own way and me? Well I'm a prude. I want to be known as a class act, respectful of others and with enormous self respect. I am not the "wild" child at any a party, you will never find me randomly naked at a party and I sure won't be giving public blow jobs to random men nor laid out on the bar for a feeding frenzy of whose ever tongue happens along but those are MY issues or as I refer to them "preferences" . For anyone to have a perception of my as some kind of whore or cheap slut is incomprehensible to be and I avoid that image at all costs. Not because I care so much what "they" think of me but because of what I think of myself, it is not my nature to be like that plain and simple. I shrug , look away and think "more power to them" Never let someones elses good time spoil yours. Go to parties with an open mind and reserve the option to close your eyes to things you find uncomfortable. We all make judgements of others, most just aren't honest enough to admit it. As to whether she has a "right" to be there...of course she does. Would you want to be shunned, excluded or barred because you refused to take your clothes off and dance naked on the tables? Good luck.

Mrs Sav

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I think you are being a bit judgemental but no opinion is "wrong" and you are entitled to yours. Since it appears others enjoyed it, you can choose to accept that it is "normal" in these venues and either ignore her or go somewhere else. You mention there are 4 clubs you attend, see where she is signed up and go to one of the other clubs if her actions offend you.

Now let's say for the sake of argument that ALL of the other wives agree with you. Eventually, they will tell their husbands not to play with this woman and she will only be able to play when single males are invited so you can go when it is couples only. The bottom line is, you need to adjust YOUR behavior if she offends you, she is under no obligation to adjust hers to suit you.

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sluts are awesome...........if my ex wife was one id still be married and extremely happy :)

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Clubs I dont see having a problem with the way she acted esp if they had single males who paid money, its all about money with the clubs. Events like houseparties and lifestyle events with friends she would certainly not fit in with the group of friends I have. I think it may have a lot to do with who you hang out with, some just like in vanilla world, just wont fit in with some circles. Take the high road I found its the most fun one in the lifestyle. :)~

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LOL I had forgotten about this thread. If you feel this is unfriendly, than you may wish to grow thicker skin, before posting in any forum. This is tame.

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HOLY COW! There was sex at a club that people go to intending to find others to have sex with. Who knew that could happen!

Seriously, I think the question is; is there such a thing as too much sex? Who defines what is too much and what is unacceptable sexual behaviour?

I have looked at a few of the clubs info as my husband and I are interested in checking one out. I don't see any rules about too much sex or defining parameters for sex at any of those.

If she was not causing trouble but was there to explore her sexuality and enjoy herself, if those who were participating with her were enjoying themselves, then I don't see a problem.

What makes her cup of tea may not make mine but I hope no one is judging the way I take my fun.

The Wife

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It's HEEL, feeling like a heel. Agh. Put a white sock on it. A quality white sock.

Is it normal? Is what normal? As compared to?

I really need to sleep.

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Why won't anyone go into the play area if she's in there? It must be one helluva small club if a few people can fill it up! It makes me wonder how prudish and insecure the swingers are in your neck of the woods if everyone you've talked to at all the clubs in the area are intimidated by one woman's style of play. And one that sounds kind of regular club fun to me!

At the clubs I've been to, anything between two or more consenting adults (except for male on male activity - most clubs save that for a particular bi-friendly night) is acceptable. I think you'll find that's the norm at almost any swing club.

Why does this disturb you so much? That's the question you should be asking. Not what you can do to stop someone else from having fun.

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