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User Details are only visible to members.	M im with you.......seems like she is burning the candle at both ends......
Rockport MA			Username hidden (4906 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Don't hate sluts. I have been that slutty girl at a club that fucks all of the guys ang1982, the above is your post. So are these: "To avoid the condom taste, play with people you trust and go bareback" "I am a young fertile female allergic to condoms and do play bareback. I love the feeling of a bare cock in my pussy or ass and love a sticky creampie leaking out of me all day long. It is tricky trying to find the right guys. I do screen guys pretty heavily before I let them fuck me. Lots of testing and getting their sexual histories. I test monthly. I prefer guys who are V-safe otherwise I need to get the morning after pill" ================================== While you're free to do a you wish, I'm curious how you can explain the inconsistency. How do you screen all the guys that you fuck in the club?
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12194 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Don't hate sluts. I have been that slutty girl at a club that fucks all of the guys , :-) You go girl, My wife has always enjoyed being the "slut" at the club. Maybe Op and her crews problem was that the lady in questions was not as selective as they thought she should be. My wife tends to comb the club looking for the guys no one else is paying attention to, you know the ones others by their standards find less than attractive.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2186 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Don't hate sluts. I have been that slutty girl at a club that fucks all of the guys , :-)
Albany NY			Username hidden (29 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sb311. , NicAtNight. , and. Savandwin Thank you for your thaughts and comments. It helped.. ; )
Geneseo NY			Username hidden (8 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Blondie, I am sure what you are feeling is uncomfortableness with behavior that is foreign to your own and you found her behavior shocking and perhaps tasteless. I too suffer from pangs of "Oh my God I can't believe so and so is acting like that" Some behaviors would be completely out of character to me. When I was new to this all I had to focus myself to keep my mouth shut , I am sure I looked like a tourist with a sense of bewilderment , shock and awe on my face quite frequently. Rest assured it does get easier or perhaps you just become more immune to sights you will see. The challenging part is putting aside your expectations of other peoples behavior based on your our limits and preferences. There is nothing "wrong" with her behavior for her and her partner and surely not her playmates. As for the fact that people are "talking" about her if I were you I'd keep my thoughts, judgements and opinions to myself or between my partner and I. Trust if they are gossiping about her you too could be next. Women are catty, mean spirited creatures and gossip will bite you in the ass every time.Clarify how you want to play and what makes you comfortable and overlook of ignore what you aren't comfortable with. I'd also spend a few minutes questioning why you are so worried about it? Sometimes women get jealous of all the attention another gets even if the behavior tactic they are using isn't something we'd EVER do and are perhaps even repulsed by. For my own true confession I am still shocked by a lot I see in clubs and have to remind myself that just because I would NEVER do that, there is nothing wrong with the person doing it....they're having fun their own way and me? Well I'm a prude. I want to be known as a class act, respectful of others and with enormous self respect. I am not the "wild" child at any a party, you will never find me randomly naked at a party and I sure won't be giving public blow jobs to random men nor laid out on the bar for a feeding frenzy of whose ever tongue happens along but those are MY issues or as I refer to them "preferences" . For anyone to have a perception of my as some kind of whore or cheap slut is incomprehensible to be and I avoid that image at all costs. Not because I care so much what "they" think of me but because of what I think of myself, it is not my nature to be like that plain and simple. I shrug , look away and think "more power to them" Never let someones elses good time spoil yours. Go to parties with an open mind and reserve the option to close your eyes to things you find uncomfortable. We all make judgements of others, most just aren't honest enough to admit it. As to whether she has a "right" to be there...of course she does. Would you want to be shunned, excluded or barred because you refused to take your clothes off and dance naked on the tables? Good luck. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4006 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think you are being a bit judgemental but no opinion is "wrong" and you are entitled to yours. Since it appears others enjoyed it, you can choose to accept that it is "normal" in these venues and either ignore her or go somewhere else. You mention there are 4 clubs you attend, see where she is signed up and go to one of the other clubs if her actions offend you. Now let's say for the sake of argument that ALL of the other wives agree with you. Eventually, they will tell their husbands not to play with this woman and she will only be able to play when single males are invited so you can go when it is couples only. The bottom line is, you need to adjust YOUR behavior if she offends you, she is under no obligation to adjust hers to suit you.
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11415 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Blondie, what you saw sounds pretty normal for most of the swing clubs I have ever seen. I sometimes attend a swing club that has a rather unique feature that is rumored to have been the site of a sizzling sexual display. I must have missed it though, (darn). I am looking forward to later this spring, when I take Mr. for his first visit there -- I won't miss the action this time, as I intend to be the one doing it:) At the clubs and houseparties I frequent, pretty much anything that is consentual between the parties involved and is not disruptive to other patrons, goes. If you see something that you have questions about, then you should address your concerns to the Management of the facility and see what they have to say. You also have the option of simply ignoring her and going about your swing experience the way you want to. Mrs. SB
Memphis TN			Username hidden (2717 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	sluts are awesome...........if my ex wife was one id still be married and extremely happy :)
Rockport MA			Username hidden (4906 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Clubs I dont see having a problem with the way she acted esp if they had single males who paid money, its all about money with the clubs. Events like houseparties and lifestyle events with friends she would certainly not fit in with the group of friends I have. I think it may have a lot to do with who you hang out with, some just like in vanilla world, just wont fit in with some circles. Take the high road I found its the most fun one in the lifestyle. :)~
Spring TX			Username hidden (1844 post)

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