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User Details are only visible to members.	@kind - Wouldn't that be fun?!?? Not that the dress would stay on for long... @spicy - There ya go!! Definitely pull up a youtube vid on doing the smokey eye. I try to do it, but I end up looking like I went a round in the boxing ring. LOL!!
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User Details are only visible to members.	oh my Spicy, 57 days! I'm sorry for that. I don't know how military families get through so much, I know it can't be easy, but I applaud you all. and thank you all too. Wanna, I think some of us here have to come visit you and take you out so you could wear your dress!! I see long list of peeps here that would be happy to help a girl out... ;)
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User Details are only visible to members.	@kind - Thanks! Found the dress on sale at Ross! I love it and feel soooo sexy in it. I call it my Marilyn Monroe dress. :) Now I just have to find a place to wear it here! LOL @spicy - The majority of my pix I take in my bathroom/bedroom with my cell phone camera on 10 second timer mode. So they are not professional pictures, but so what. I usually take like 20 pictures for each 1 I actually post. They are basically clear, in-focus and get the point across as to what I'd be bringing to the party! And yes....the judicious use of cropping can make anyone look better
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User Details are only visible to members.	omg Wanna, I LOVE that dress! You look absolutely beautiful!! Hey Spicy, time for some sexy pics! (easier said then done for me, lol) but helps with feeling sexy. Have hubby take alot a pick a few. They don't have to crazy, and cropping helps. I think there's still a thread about Pictures around here. It can be alot of fun, and usually ends up with some great sex! ;)
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User Details are only visible to members.	@spicy - But that's the fun thing about this lifestyle! When playing, you don't have to be your normal, regular, "vanilla" self. I think using your profile name (spicycouple) as inspiration in this lifestyle would be fun!! :) Spicy - use this word as your mantra when working out. When shopping for "play clothes", ask yourself "is this dress/skirt/lingerie spicy enough"? Buy a spicy color lipstick. Wear a spicy perfume when out playing. These are only suggestions to help give you ideas. Take from them what you wish or not at all. I completely understand how you feel. I spent all of my 30's and the beginning of my 40's being my kids' mom....feeling fat, unattractive and I basically didn't give a crap about myself. Changing your mind about how YOU feel about YOU is the first step. You can do it, girl!!! :)
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User Details are only visible to members.	Exactly! Earlier this year, I kind of made peace with my body. I'm 44 years, I have 2 kids and my body is going to show it. I am ever going to have my 22 year old body back?? Hll no, but I can make the best of my 44 yr old body. Mr Wanna and I met up with some friends at an Old School Nite held at a local hotel last week. Basically it was people our age drinking like 20 yr olds and dancing to 80's music. I saw a bunch of my old classmates there and you know what?? I didn't look too bad! LOL I got some 2nd looks from some men and some stinky* looks from some women, so I was STOKED! So great for my self-esteem. So...keep working on it! Eat right, find an exercise routine YOU like (I do treadmill, Brazil Butt Lift dvd's and take Zumba classes). And definitely dress for your current size. You'll feel much better and sexier in clothes that fit you NOW. So you'll need to buy new clothes in 6 weeks as you keep losing weight and toning up. That's the fun part!!
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User Details are only visible to members.	@spicy - I think Sexus gave you excellent advice! And as you work out more and get healthier and more toned, you'll feel better about yourself. I embarked on a get healthier/shape up thing back at the end of May and I feel so much more self-confident. This lifestyle is quite the motivator, too. Knowing that total strangers will see you naked really helps.
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User Details are only visible to members.	The best thing you can do as far as clothing goes, wear something sexy underneath, it's like a sly little secret for yourself. Also, wear clothes that truly fit your body well NOW, not clothes that hang on you, not clothes that hide you, not clothes that are too tight and uncomfortable. There is nothing attractive or confident about a woman tugging at her clothing. Do your hair to suit you, makeup, nails, whatever you do to express YOU. Don't hide. Don't hide your body. Find something you like about yourself at the weight you are now instead of always thinking, "well, when I get to this weight, THEN..." You'll get there when you get there. In the meantime, enjoy who you are and what you look like right now. Buy yourself something new that you like, feel attractive in, that fits you now. No matter what size. Rip the tags off if you're too self conscious about the number on a tag. You're not "wasting money" by buying an outfit that you feel good in. Spend the money on a good fit. You don't need a lot of clothes, but you do want to get something you feel good in. Do you like your butt? Get a great pair of jeans. Legs? A short sexy flirty skirt. So what if you lose weight and it only gets worn a few times? Spend something on yourself. Like what you see in the mirror. Could it be better? For me, that answer is YES, and it will be when I get up off my butt and take care of myself better. But until then, I know that I am attractive "enough" for some people, not everyone, and I have some good points, amongst some "bad" points. Hope this helps. There is an addiction adage that says "Fake it till you make it." That goes a long way in this case too. You feel better when you look better, and you look better when you feel better. That will shine through the insecurities. Gina
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