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User Details are only visible to members.	Thanks for the welcome kinddragon! And yes, Sexus, I agree, everyone is different. I think the physical location and size of the clitoris is probably a factor in the ability to orgasm as well. Mine is very small and hidden and gets zero stimulation from penetration, even with me on top. I just hope, since we are new to this lifestyle, that men aren't going to be really upset or disappointed with me when they can't get me to cum without a toy. :(
Wailuku HI			Username hidden (440 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	You have nothing to be jealous of. Every woman is different, and feels things differently. Enjoys things differently, etc. I rarely rarely orgasm through oral; I think I'm too aware of what is going on. In other areas, yes, very multiple, with someone who is skilled at touch and reading the sensitivity of my body, and varying the touches. I love that. It's my favorite way to orgasm. Masturbation is often a slow process for me. Again, I know I'm thinking too much. It's when I'm with someone and just letting myself feel without thinking is when I'm the most orgasmic. And yes, with certain people (mu husband, #1), I can be told to cum and I will pretty quickly. For a lot of people, sex is mostly a mind fuck, and I include myself in that category. My body follows I guess? That, and I seriously feel that my central nervous system was underdeveloped as a preemie and has left me extra sensitive. I've been accused of bragging about this kind of thing, but as in all my posts, I simply write my own experiences, truthfully, and share them. I cannot be so unique that others haven't experiences similar things. It helps ME to read about others' experiences, so hopefully it helps others to read mine. Gina
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User Details are only visible to members.	You have nothing to be jealous of. Every woman is different, and feels things differently. Enjoys things differently, etc. I rarely rarely orgasm through oral; I think I'm too aware of what is going on. In other areas, yes, very multiple, with someone who is skilled at touch and reading the sensitivity of my body, and varying the touches. I love that. It's my favorite way to orgasm. Masturbation is often a slow process for me. Again, I know I'm thinking too much. It's when I'm with someone and just letting myself feel without thinking is when I'm the most orgasmic. And yes, with certain people (mu husband, #1), I can be told to cum and I will pretty quickly. For a lot of people, sex is mostly a mind fuck, and I include myself in that category. My body follows I guess? That, and I seriously feel that my central nervous system was underdeveloped as a preemie and has left me extra sensitive. I've been accused of bragging about this kind of thing, but as in all my posts, I simply write my own experiences, truthfully, and share them. I cannot be so unique that others haven't experiences similar things. It helps ME to read about others' experiences, so hopefully it helps others to read mine. Gina
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User Details are only visible to members.	"Now...the flipside of all of this is...since starting a new medication last year, the sensation, general feelings "down there" and my libido have skyrocketed!" lucky lucky girl!! :) Welcome to the forums too! I'm a clit girl so I don't always orgasm with intercourse unless I'm on top. I have more control over pressure on my clit when I want it. ;)
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User Details are only visible to members.	Scandle, indeed. Increased libido is NOT a normal side effect of this medication. Even my doctor was like..."WTH?!?" LOL But hearing stories of multi-orgasmic women, women able to orgasm from penetration alone, etc....it's such a bummer for me. But hubby is always willing to try! :)
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User Details are only visible to members.	WannaTry, it sounds like you've got things well in hand (pun intended)! I'm glad to hear your meds improved things. So often I hear about different meds killing the libido, which can be frustrating for everyone involved.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Thanks for the welcome Scandle! We're newbies here, but I thought I'd jump in on this topic. Due to the physiological cards I have been dealt, orgasm from penetration alone never happens. I am able to orgasm from oral, but I feel bad for poor hubby as I can take a really long time. Thank goodness he's an oral kinda guy and enjoys himself. So, I resort to my trusty vibrator, but due to me always using it, I feel like my clitoris has somehow become de-sensitized. I'm trying to wean myself off of it. :) Now...the flipside of all of this is...since starting a new medication last year, the sensation, general feelings "down there" and my libido have skyrocketed! My orgasms are indeed more elusive, but it's almost like I don't care if I achieve an orgasm because I enjoy the sex so much more now. Don't know if that makes much sense, but it's true.
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User Details are only visible to members.	WannaTry808, welcome to the Forums. Sorry to hear you are lucky to have even one orgasm. Have you tried a variety of ways to get there? It wasn't until I discovered the joys of using a vibrating toy on my clit that I experienced an orgasm, even though I would get really horny when engaging in sex. Now I don't always have an orgasm when having sex, but when conditions are right I'm able to have several. Here are a few things to think about. A reply isn't 'required' but would be interesting to read if you care to share. Have you explored what turns you on and what turns you off? Can you orchestrate your lovemaking to address what YOU want? Are you able to set aside the worries of the day to focus on your own pleasure? Are you willing to try something new to see if it works for you?
Sheboygan Falls WI			Username hidden (6970 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I'm very envious of you multi-orgasmic women. I'm lucky if I have one.
Wailuku HI			Username hidden (440 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Clitoral or vaginal, two minimum always but during a several hour party 5~10 is not uncommon. :)
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