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If the world was filled with more Tom's like me, total bliss. And no Harry Dick lives here.

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*making calls to start process of changing name to Tom*

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LoL shibby, my name is Tom, Need to get my mind out of the gutter :P

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Thanks allot for the comments gals, really appreciate it. I especially like the idea of when it comes out to tease her a little with it. Will have to start trying that. See what kind of reactions i get :P

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"It seems like most men hold themselves to pornstar expectations . . . ."

Yep, this one does. I want a couple to still be getting excited about it weeks or months afterwards.

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It seems like most men hold themselves to pornstar expectations when, in reality, that is the last thing most women expect. Just relax, pleasure, and allow yourself to be pleasured and you'll be fine. In all honesty, in a swinging situation, I'm pretty damned happy if a guy can get it up, keep it up, and get off! I'm ECSTATIC if he's good orally, can bang for a while, and get it up for more than one round! I am NOT joking either.

Just relax, be fun, and have fun, guys. The girls will take care of the rest... at least that's how I look at it.

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I think a lot of it has to do with position and definitely either how 'wet' she is or the amount of lube you may be using?? If you are using lube, cut back on the quantity ... if it is how wet she is ... you are not doing anything wrong ;)

Great answer!

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It's not a big deal...the only bad thing would be if your condom slips off and you have to reposition it. I don't think it says anything at all about performance, maybe that you are a bit too concerned with your motions...relax. When I'm with someone new, sometimes my muscles will contract and "push" out a penis. Just get back in there, and have fun.

I'm with you Shel, on feeling for these guys and their worries. Have we done this to you guys with swinging? There are all sorts of worries and nervousness, about your performance, about what's going on in the next bed with your wife: "is she enjoying herself? Is she thinking I'm enjoying myself TOO much?" etc etc etc...it goes on and on.

You will know if it's bothersome to someone. I would say it's all part of swinging, and enjoying new people. And if you use your cock, when it does "come out," as a tool, and tease around her vaginal opening and clit, then the pulling out, pulling back, can all be a bit part of teasing and fun. It's all a matter of attitude about it.

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...just turn it into some smooth shit heehee. The only time that can hurt is if a man is semi hard and the cock bendies and pulls on your perineum. What you described? Nah, it has never bothered me.


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Yea, we are already seeing THAT side of this new venture. Not getting discouraged about it though. Cause when we are able to find a good couple really makes it worth it.

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