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User Details are only visible to members.	My older son leaves soon to move back to Ohio b/c his business did not do well here in Texas. I'm sad, but most of all I'm heartbroken for him b/c he had hopes of making a new start here, both business wise and personally. He lived only 15 minutes away for a year, and I'm going to miss him like crazy, but above all, I just want him to be happy and successful no matter where he lives. Love my sons above anything else. Gina
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (6133 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I was a great student headed for college on my parents plan and at 17 brought 2 marine recruiters home to meet my parents and sign parental consent. They were floored, my poor dad just sat there, like whats going on, my GIRLY girl wants to do what, NO WAY!! My mother, aunt, and grandma, cried literally, and admired those 2 hot guys in uniform. However, they did later sign and supported me the entire time. It was an amazing experience and has lasted a lifetime, Once a Marine, Always a Marine.... I would say, its a great opportunity to travel and meet people in all walks of life, earn a trade and friendships that last a lifetime, and a level of pride and commitment that will never leave your son. If thats his chosen path, more power to him, its hard, its rugged, and its scary at times, but none of us would be free if there werent people like your son, who decided to fight for our country. I say support and be very, very proud, its a hard decision, and very different than what was expected of me and the opposite of what all my friends were doing. I think its great!! And ofcourse, the most important thing, constantly write him....its keeps you going no matter where you are :)
Fort Morgan CO			Username hidden (26 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	People are idiots, Jonsan. We have found that the majority of the time when we go to a house party or swing party, or meet new friends here, they are connected in some way to the military. I think it's a great career for so many people, and not so great for others. You have to know yourself. And like with your son, my husband knew he wasn't going to college, his parents were farm people, and knew what he wanted to do. I would have been proud for either of my sons to have joined. And that is not said lightly b/c I do actually know the risks. G.
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (6133 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I'm an armymom.. That young man of mine is my pride and joy. He's done one tour in Iraq and just recently got back from Korea. It was the hardest thing for me to accept despite know he wanted to be military since a he was little. For him, it WAS the right thing to do. We live in the country, no jobs close by. We live modestly so couldn't afford to put him through college. So in that direction it was good for him, but it also gave him discipline. Grew him up good. The hardest thing was when he went to Iraq. When they say the soldier isn't the only one fighting these wars, it's true. I suffered panic attacks when he was over there. Depression. And that's about the time I took hiatus from the lifestyle. I found that VERY few people understood what I was going through. I just couldn't deal with people telling me, " Oh I know how you feel, my son is in college and only gets to come home once a month"... Oh, that was it. This was told to me at a party. I told my husband, let's go.. and I told him I wouldn't play till he's stateside..
Simonton TX			Username hidden (79 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	good post.
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (6133 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Great satisfaction can be realized when we accept we are helping him transition from a boy to a man. Many males, me included, weren't quite ready to go from high school straight to college. So I joined the Navy and those six years did a lot to teach me better dicipline, respect, and patience. From that I was able to decide what I really wanted to do and then went to college to do it. And the military helped pay for it. It also needs to be looked at in two parts. One part is that it is the military. Another part is that where one ends up depends upon the job he takes. For example, we have a nephew who is a Marine. However, he is an air traffic controller in Japan. If he studies hard and does well on the entrance exam, he can choose among many different occupations- many with awesome training. It's amazing how a few years of real-world experience with hard working men can turn a young man into a real man and get him on a good path in life. And he'll always be able to say, "I served my country." Nobody can take that away from him and he'll have millions of brothers in arms and patriotic citizens who will look up to him for that.
Bensalem PA			Username hidden (872 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	My younger son toyed with the idea of joining the Air Force for a few years. I think it's a good career move for those who really want to do it. I can't imagine losing a son in a way, BUT, I also can't imagine losing a son in a car wreck, in a fight, to a drug overdose, at the hands of someone random, of cancer or another tragic disease, you get the idea. if my son were to die serving his country, I don't know how I would handle it, BUT I would handle it like so many others have before me. I would grieve all my life and live with a broken heart, but I would also be very proud of him for dying doing something he truly believed in. Both my sons' choices for their lives aren't about me; they're about what they believe is best for themselves. Helps that they are already grown men, it's easier for me to say that. No one knows when or how they are going to die. I imagine it's the most awful thing a parent ever faces. This same son was in a car wreck last year and it had me shook up for a long time, does even still. Luckily, I don't have to face that. I think he would have done very well in the Air Force though. He's such a capable, adaptable, intelligent and wonderful young man and I'm proud of him no matter what. He's still figuring it out for himself.
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User Details are only visible to members.	I feel y'alls pain. Both Jay and I are veterans. But there is a complete difference in our serving and our child going to war. Yeah yeah, I'm a fucking hypocrite. I know. But its true. She was talking about enlisting, I said the Air Force. But we are going with you to the recruiter, because if you do not get it in writing before your 2nd oath..you are government property. I am hoping time away has changed her mind.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23750 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thank you! I'm happy to hear opportunities are opening for your son. He brought us to the dinner table, had typed up 'voter' paper, written a speech, and pulled out two Marine Corps flags for each of us, saying, "Wouldn't you two feel proud to fly these over your homes". To wit, I replied, "Wouldn't you feel proud to walk to 5 miles to work each day?" He was ready for me... "Mom, I was to be the best. I want to serve." / "Good, make me dinner." "Mom, I want to walk in the shoes of all those before me." / "Great! Give me their names" (Damnit, he does..) But I'm on a Mother's roll with him...sooo "Where are they now?" "Uhh, Mom, well...dead." "Age range each died, Dear?" "Well, between 23 & 29." I'm a Dego...I'll win out over his little Welsh driven butt!
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (9 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	oh you have no idea how my heart goes out to you. sounds like you are doing the absolute best you can do! I hope it works out well for your son. So many people are so very proud of what they have experienced in the military, I hope your son is one of them. You know, if he is only 17, please consider not giving your permission yet. The reason why I say that, is this: Our update: during the weeks of intense talking with our son about it, he mentioned there was a job he was interested in, but he was too apprehensive about asking this man if he needed help. (Actually he sort of knew he was not hiring) ...but he went ahead and did ask!(with some subtle encouragement from us, lol) This man, (already knowing our son and having quite a connection with him) agreed to give him a try. It is 3 months later, our son loves his job! He has learned more about himself in the last 3 months than in the last 19 years! He has become responsible, confident and now actually looks forward to many different things he may do with his life. ...Granted, it's not a very safe job, lol. (mom's standards anyway) He climbs very tall trees and balances on cables high in the sky, but also travels, and meets new people from all different places, and no two days are the same. I call this a little mom miracle happening right before my eyes and am not only thrilled but also very proud of him. My point is, this happened in a very short time, forcing your son to wait a bit could work out that way too ...and is worth a shot. Our son is now glad he didn't join the marines, what he will do in the future, I do not know. But for now, he see's a really good life for himself without it.
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2999 post)

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