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TOPIC: Men treating women like objects
Created by: thrust6969
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How do women see themselves when their husbands insist on them fucking any man he brings in to the house. You see it on Porn sites these poor women who have 2 or 3 guys fucking them and one guy is forcing his cock right down her throat and the woman looks terrified but helpless. What is it that makes wives submit to being turned into a prostitute to satisfy there husbands desire to see her abused. Maybe some women like to be used as a sex object, having unprotected sex and multiple guys cum in them. But the husbands should be looking after there wives not trying to kill her with HIV. I guess it a cheap divorce ????

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Nice post Gina -- I'd love to see a poll on this, but the internet is notoriously poor for this kind of thing. I suspect that most forum contributors are current committed swingers or strong wannabe's. Their opinions will be biased. And a man saying "my wife LOVES it..." doesn't count. Another prob -- the web is anonymous. As one wag once said, "It is a place where all the men are men, and half the women are too!" My little poll was taken face to face with women -- the other partners not present (usually otherwise occupied). I think an unbiased, secure poll with authentic and representative responses would yield some interesting (and probably surprising) results. Mr. Chim

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doing because you want to or for your partner is acceptable. doing it so your partner can is not....men treating women like objects..aaawww I would never treat a women like that,,,like a cute sweet little sex toy maybe, all soft, warm and cuddly, sweet smelling, persona of a women,ok maybe once in a while ,ok ok ,I do it some,ok, ok ok I do it a lot,well dam't ,all right I do it all the time, but it not my fault they smell so good, and feel so wonderful, and they just kinda wrap themselves around you who can resist t,it just an't fair, they got all the good stuff.hhhhmmmmmmmyyeeeaaayougotme

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Interesting post, Chimera, and since there are so many couple profiles, I'm not sure how honest an answer you would get here. I think I'll post it in a club site forum as a poll, as that's anonymous and see what kind of responses there are.

As for us, Dan actually can take or leave it. His life was sort of one big swing party sometimes, lived all over the world, been there, done that, and wants to share with me whatever I want to do. Maybe I'm "spoiled"...okay, I know I am, but we pretty much go at my pace, and I appear more interested than he is. If either one of us didn't like it, or were apathetic, we'd stop. We know what we have with each other...and this swinging thing is just a fun playful thing to do.

I can say, "I'm not feeling it," or he can, and we'll go home with each other and have our best sex. It's always with each other. I love sex, sometimes more often than at other times (depends on what's going on in our lives sometimes), and Dan is very adaptable to me. If he didn't "want to" meet a couple/single, then we wouldn't. But again, it's usually me who plans these things out a bit.

We're together in this. we know each other well, and can sense when the interest level is "high" or not.

Gina

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The LIfestyle doesn't come with a manual. We have met a lot of couples where one or the other is not sure of what, or how far, they want to go. I started in informal poll of the females in the couples we met a few years ago, just based on some suspicions I/We had. It's too long a dissertation to post here, but basically, an uncomfortably high percentage of them -- in response to the question "How do you feel about swinging?" replied "It's Ok ...", "I do it mainly for him..." "I could take it or leave it alone..." -- or some close, barely lukewarm variation. it has made us wonder, and has resulted in us paying a little more attention to the couples we meet. Is there a shared commitment?

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porn not real, next you gona say the rums gone.there gose my fanstys.o well back to the catologesjust my thoughts bububye

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That's our curiousity too, Rick/Kat. The first sentence suggests a woman concerned that she is being asked by (or is accomodating) her hubby to do stuff she isn't comfortable with -- a legitimate concern and request for comment. Then Thrust rambles into a porn analogy -- a totally different world. Care to claify, Thrust?

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Seduction and Lost BOTH SPEECHLESS? Wow...um...I don't know what to say to that either.

Wondering if this is a ruse post maybe? If it's serious, then someone is living in a fantasy porn world where the actors and actresses are real...

I recently read Traci Lords' autobiography and totally respect and admire her. I wouldn't say she was submissive throughout, but I would say she's a strong woman.

I'm rambling. I'll just be speechless too. G.

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I don't know which of the couple sent this, but it sounds like you have serious issues that you should discuss with your partner.

Maybe it is the woman who is dragging the male into a bedroom and forcing him to have sex with many females. To be honest this is sometimes how I feel my lady loves to watch me. So I am a lucky man Grin

Neither forces the other, we both like this lifestyle and when we decide to get out we usually have a lot of fun and we talk about it before we do anything, no surprises or force.

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...I do not know what to say about this one.


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I do not just bring anyone home for my wife to service. When she is with another man though she to be "used". She likes to feel a man use her as she has a bit of a sub side to her.

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