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TOPIC: I need a woman's point of view
Created by: Bumperdude
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Recently I was chatting with friend who says she and other ladies don't talk about receiving oral the way men do. I assumed she meant they just don't discuss it as much. A mutual girlfriend then said that they talk about the good providers all the time, but never share the wealth. I was just wondering what women think in general. You receive incredible oral from a man do you: tell other ladies but withhold his ID, or share the wealth?

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I dont talk about the lifestyle to my vanilla friends except one and she just knows where I am going and will be and all the safety stuff. I have discussed some things with her,, but really not much. If someone contacts me with the fact a male friend gave her my info to check references, or confirm I had met, played, then Yes I will discuss whatever they would like. After of course making sure that my friend had actually asked them to speak with me.

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You receive incredible oral from a man do you: tell other ladies but withhold his ID, or share the wealth?"

Depends on the lady I think. With me, unless I am joking around, I usually say absolutely nothing. Not that I am witholding info lol...I just find it personally tacky to brag about such things...esp. if you are my playmate. I have next'd playmates for sharing the wealth about my ass, let me tell you..even though it was "favorable" information. I'll joke about it though.

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A couple thoughts...

First, It's sort of like 'kiss and tell'. Discretion is valued in the lifestyle, so it's not something that would be a part of casual conversation. But something really great is worth telling close friends who you can trust with the information.

Second, women tend to think of things as a whole experience (with emphasis on the finish) rather than just a particular part.

Third, women have different types of orgasms (ie. clitoral, vaginal, g-spot, pressure, tension, relaxation, etc.) and oral may not be the particular stimulation match for a lady A as it is for lady B. And sometimes it just isn't the right stimulation for that day or moment in play.

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Recently I was chatting with friend who says she and other ladies don't talk about receiving oral the way men do. I assumed she meant they just don't discuss it as much. A mutual girlfriend then said that they talk about the good providers all the time, but never share the wealth. I was just wondering what women think in general. You receive incredible oral from a man do you: tell other ladies but withhold his ID, or share the wealth?

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TOPIC: I need a woman's point of view